Shidduchim SOS

My Non Existent Shidduch Date

From the COLlive inbox: The Shadchan and her parents pressured her to meet - and then the bochur was asked... Full Story

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Dumped Like a Queen

From the COLlive inbox: "The shidduch with the first bochur I've liked in four years has ended and I feel like a million bucks..." Full Story

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Guy Bashing Isn't the Answer

From the COLlive Inbox: "Recently there's been a growing trend to blame the guys' side in this game no one enjoys." Full Story

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Dating Someone Who Smokes

From the COLlive inbox: A shadchan recently said girls should date bochurim who smoke since they will quit. The opposite is true. Full Story

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Ending a Shidduch in Person

From the COLlive inbox: It's time we take into account the other person's feelings and end the shidduch yourself if it doesn't fit. Full Story

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How Not to 'Sell' a Shidduch

From the COLlive inbox: A single Lubavitch woman says the way shidduch offers are described most likely lead to their failure. Full Story

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What Singles Need to Figure Out

"There's a common thread of unresolved issues running through the minds of older singles," says shaddchanis Rivkah Leah Bernath. Full Story

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"Pressure-Cooker" Shidduch Time

Op-Ed: Dating before the summer months brings its own set of challenges, making a complicated process even more so. Full Story

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The "Girl Shopping" Bochur

4 clues how to spot the "shopping" bochurim in the shidduchim scene to avoid heartache and save yourself time and money. Full Story

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Restore Humanity to Dating

From the COLlive inbox: A single Chabad girl has 2 simple suggestions to help be more sensitive in all matters of dating. Full Story

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