By Brocha Metzger
I read Dr. John E. Sarno’s book. And then I had back surgery.
Let me explain.
I feel compelled to respond to the Sarno Fever currently raging in Crown Heights, as highlighted by the recent article on COLlive.com, in addition to the repeated feedback from those who attended.
I know too many back-pain sufferers who are being told that Dr. Sarno’s method is the only way. Especially in the frum community where group sessions are converting the masses. I do know that while many of those in attendance find relief with the Mind-Body approach, countless others do not, and will not. Dr. Sarno’s diagnosis of TMR (a harmless condition which presents itself as a result of repressed emotions) is a revelation for many patients. For others, like me, there are serious conditions that are entirely physical which require medical intervention.
I was actually practicing the Sarno method (of essentially ignoring my pain) before I knew of its existence. Despite back pain that would eventually extend down my leg, I kept going. I took frequent walks and even went hiking. I had hoped my back pains would subside after a few weeks, just as they had in past bouts. Mind over matter. Ain’t nothin’ gonna keep me down.
That was last summer. I kvetched a little to my friends but managed to keep going. In exercise class I simply skipped high-impact segments. I popped Advils but nothing more.
In September I was taking one of my walks in Central Park when I had a severe spasm in my knee, which then gave way. I was down on the asphalt path. Kind passersby rushed to help me. I managed to get up onto my feet. And then minutes later it happened again. Then again. Initially I did not associate these incidents with my back and thought I had some form of leg paralysis. Others asked if I had been suffering from back issues and connected the dots for me. Duh.
I visited the NYU Spine Center. They tested my reflexes and determined that I was indeed suffering from sciatica and that I had nerve damage which was causing my leg to give way. My reflexes in that leg were shot. They scheduled an MRI for the following week, after Rosh Hashana.
On Rosh Hashana I had to use a walker with a flip-down seat to go to shul. Every short city block or so I had to sit down due to spasms and knee collapse. During lunch at Chabad, one man, a nice frum visitor, said that I absolutely must talk to the frum Sarno pratitioner who had cured him. The man’s wife related to me that her husband had back problems so severe that he stayed in a Manhattan hotel after work to spare her the worry over his cries of pain. He thought he would never move again. He was doubtful at first, but then, after speaking with the Sarno practitioner for an hour, he was cured. Done. Finito.
Another woman at shul related that she had frequent back pain until she read Dr. Sarno’s book. She said that his treatment works and that it is true that back problems are stress-related. The next day she brought the book in, “Healing Back Pain – The Mind-Body Method” by Dr. John E. Sarno. I read it. In one afternoon.
Had I been under a lot of stress? check (But how many people do you know that are not under stress?). Was I in agony and hysterics about my back as many of Dr. Sarno’s patients had been? NO. Was I afraid to move or was I completely immobilized? NO. Was I ignoring my emotions? NO. Was I living in fear that my life as I had known it was over? Also NO. I had persistent back pain but the Mind-Body method that I had instituted on my own was not working. My knee was still giving way. And I found out why after my MRI later that week.
Unlike some of those cured of pain stemming from the standard slipped or herniated discs, one of my numerous herniated discs was completely extruded. The gel contents of my disc had separated entirely and was lodged along my spinal cord like a strip of toothpaste. The doctors said it was a miracle I could walk at all. Even Dr. Sarno acknowledges in his book that in severe cases, especially where nerve damage occurs, surgery might be warranted. I did not have what the Sarno people call “TMS”. This was not a psychosomatic issue. It was beyond anything that could be cured in the mind-over-matter way. I was already attempting to distract myself and move on as if I had no pain. I was doing the Sarno-prescribed stuff before I had even read the book.
During this period, my cousin Charlotte called. She had heard about my back trouble. Years ago she had back trouble. She went to Dr. Sarno. He helped quite a bit. But now her back pain was back and her husband would have to push her to shul in a wheelchair on Yom Kippur. “So, Charlotte. Will you finally have back surgery?”. “No of course not. Back surgery is scary. Mind over Matter”. My doctor was on the other line. I told her I would call her back but never did. (Sorry Charlotte. If you are reading this. I was afraid to hear that the Mind-Body method administered by Dr. Sarno himself was not working…that you were getting around in a wheelchair…and that you still would not consider surgery…the prospect of which is, indeed, scary.)
I did not want surgery and the doctors did not push it. They said we would try every other alternative and medical intervention before considering an operation. So for three months I did it all. Epidural injections. Physical therapy. Acupunture by three different types of practitioners (maybe this one will know he/she is doing!). One acupunturist, an MD, said “You don’t need an MRI. We all have slipped and herniated discs. With one session you will walk out of here and be fine”. Um, I was barely able to make it out of her office upright. FAIL.
After ten months of varying back pain and sciatica, as well as a second expert opinion from a Rofeh yedid, I had the surgery. By then the disc matter on my spinal cord had calcified and literally had to be dug out of me. Recovery was not fun. No sitting for a week or two. No riding in cars for six weeks. Et al.
Post-surgery there was tremendous immediate relief but not a total cessation of back trouble. With increasing pain, I recently went back to the spine center only to find that an additional disc had herniated, that a new fragment was lodged lower down on my spine, and that the reason I was having trouble sitting was because I have arthritis my lower back. All this is complicated and partially caused by my lumbar scolosis. A cortisone injection BH seems to be helping a lot. There is hope that I many never need additional back surgery. And yes, mind over matter does help. A lot. It simply does not go the full mile for me.
Recently an article appeared on COLLIVE that featured the Crown Heights session touting the miraculous effects of the Sarno Method. Large crowds have been attending similar events in many frum neighborhoods. Since then a whole lot of well-intentioned people seem to think that, had I known about Sarno’s approach, I would be ready for the Olympics today. Sorry folks, my back is just very, very Jewish. And, quite frankly, I’m exhausted from having to explain to countless people why my back issues require medical intervention.
I am not attempting to throw a damper on a method that has truly helped – and possibly even cured – many people suffering from pain. I am simply cautioning readers not to buckle to the herd mentality. I see people suffering from sciatica, with a potential for permanent nerve damage, who are near-brainwashed into thinking that Sarno is the only way.
I am told that upwards of 80% of adults suffer from back pain at some point in their lives. The Sarno Method has helped many and I hope it will continue to heal those in need. For those who are not cured by this approach, just FYI, there are other treatments to consider.
So. To Sarno or not to Sarno? That is the question.
The answer depends upon whom is doing the asking.
Refuah Shelaima.
exactly as sarno says. that is what happened to her.
she has the surgery. feels better. and almost immediately a new problem sets in.
DON’T BELIEVE THE SKEPTICS! IT WORKS GREAT!
I had debilitating back pain R”L that left me spending the day laying on the couch for two months. That was over two months that I could not work and my family had no income! Wow!
Then, I picked up Sarno’s book and was healed in 4 days. That’s right, just 4 days.
All this happened 7 years ago, and B”H I’m fine.
The author wrote, “I was actually practicing the Sarno method (of essentially ignoring my pain) before I knew of its existence.” Sadly, that is not Dr. Sarno’s method. His method is to acknowledge (most for the first time) the rage behind the stresses in one’s life and to tell one’s mind, “I can handle my stresses without it manifesting in physical pain.” Ignoring the pain just is not the answer and is not what will cure a person.
10 1/2 years ago, after many years of therapy, I too was told about Dr Sarno. I was told that back surgery was not good don’t do!! But when a collapsed one night, I was rushed to the hospital and told that my vertebrae was fractured all the way down from L-5 to S1! Had I not gone I would have ended up in a wheel chair. I remained in pain on and off for 9 years. I “learned” and lived Dr. Sarno. Last summer I was blessed with maricle, called a spinal cord stimulator, by Medtronic. I have been… Read more »
I’m sorry, but for a treatment to be effective, you shouldnt have to be “open to it”. Medical treatments are effective because of their actual interaction and mechanism on the body. If you have a headache and take ibuprofen, it will reduce the pain whether or not you are open to it working.
BS”D how do you call an esteemed well credentialed doctor # 9 a quack,the emcee at the event has had approx 15 years of relief, 15 pain free years, hardly the definition of a placebo affect, usually the ignorant,unhappy and uneducated use such terms as you do, is it your job to discourage people, furthermore, the video testimonials were bybpeople who did not look to bevoverweight, in fact one was an avid basketball player
I woke up one morning and could not move. I tried every alternative option out there for 3 months. I would read Sarnos book daily to will myself to feel better.
I felt better when after 3 months, I had back surgery. I felt better instantly. If there is something physically wrong with you, you need to get it fixed. Willing your mind will not remove nerve damage being caused by a herniated disc.
Excellent article. Kudos to the author. She wrote in a clear concise manner and it was very informative. I felt like I was reading a professional medical journal review.
May Hashem (the true Rofeh Kol Bosor) grant you a Refuah Shleimah. Thank you.
Re Comment 6: Clearly I’m open to Sarno and tried the method. I also did acupuncture which is considered Alternative. At a certain point medical intervention is necessary. Agreed “Moach Shalit al HaLEV”. That’s why Sarno works for those whose pain issues stem from from emotional “lev issues”. This is why I shared so much detail about what is physically wrong with my back….so that it is OBVIOUS that the pain is not just in my head and heart. There are simply too many physical issues for the mind to control the pain. (4 out of my 5 lumbar discs… Read more »
Dr Sarno makes it clear in his book that you need to make sure you have no real physical problems first, before trying his method. I read his other book over ten years ago, heal the mind heal the pain, helped me tremendously. Good luck.
Excellent writing, collive please have Rebbetzin Metzger write more often!
I understand how people in our community are taken in by this quack. Ignorance and a tendency towards magic thinking. Placebo can work in the short-term but will catch up with you. Back pain can be helped with conventional methods like exercise, physical therapy. Try losing some weight and getting in shape. You won’t regret it!
Sarno is for those who do not have a physical ailment…. you need to have no physical abnormalities like a herniated disc or damaged nerves. Its when the pain is coming from the mind not in the hurt area. Your mind cant fix herniates disks or sciatica. Your mind can fix emltional pain that manifests in the body.
For me, lower back pain usually signifies a uti or kidney stone. Can’t wish those away
In order to be helped,you have to be open to it. u dont seem to be open to alternative medicine! go ahead and keep going to your drs.,hopefully u will feel pain free. remember what chasidu teaches us”moach shalit al halev” .
Glad you wrote this piece
I underwent 3 emergency surgeries- I fell 15 feet
Dr Sarno told me the method would not work for me and that I was “crazy” to believe or listen to ppl who says that mind body would fix the broken pieces of my spine
It’s important to write another follow up and to help ppl understand to be sensitive to ppl who are suffering in pain and also being asked to explain themselves to others who are in total belief that we can wish it away
Answer: ONLY after everything else was ruled out From Every Side by Top Notch Experts in The Field, But NOT Before That. Because You Can G-D Forbid End Up Missing The Boat…
Agree it didn’t work for me as well:(
This is an imp read as sarno advocates do have a hard time understanding this..they’re in a frenzy to convince everyone that this is the only way everyone must go.
BS”D Hope you remain pain free