Shidduchim SOS
-2 Sides to Shidduch
-Yes, I'm Waiting
-That Loving Feeling
-No Dating Romance
-Get Off the High Horse
-Once Upon a Time...
-What Bochurim Think
-Comment #31 Girl
-Why am I Not Married
-We All Know Someone
-What Kallahs Want
-Another Broken Heart?
-Her Parents Rejected Us


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Jan 28, 2013

From the COLlive inbox: A 23-year-old bochur in Shidduchim wonders whether it is really a good idea to send a photo before a date. Full Story

144 Comments

Dec 19, 2012

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With the shidduch process ever complex, a new pre-dating course for bochurim and girls will begin in the next few weeks.
Full Story

36 Comments

Nov 22, 2012

Illustration photo by Mendel Meyers

Shidduchim SOS: Why would a mother with an eligible daughter treat a prospective girl for her son with minimal respect? Full Story

138 Comments
Oct 22, 2012

Illustration photo by Israel Bardugo

In a letter to be published in an upcoming Igros Kodesh volume, the Rebbe says shidduchim between Ashkenazim and Sephardim "pair up nicely." Full Story

59 Comments

Oct 6, 2012

COLlive exclusive: Marriage classes are a must among Chabad couples. Now a pre-dating course of 8 sessions was developed in Crown Heights. Full Story

67 Comments

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May 19, 2012

From the COLlive inbox: A mother from Florida has a suggestion which will have an "encouraging effect for other parents" dealing with shidduchim. Full Story

78 Comments

Feb 23, 2012

SOS Shidduchim: A married man shares a few rules for dating based on things he personally experienced on shidduch dates.
Full Story

61 Comments

Jan 28, 2012

Illustration photo by Israel Bardugo

Shidduchim SOS: "Nothing was working out for me, I couldn't even get a date. I was down in spirit and so I decided I was going to take a break and just see where life takes me."
Full Story

21 Comments

Jan 8, 2012

From the COLlive Inbox: A 22 year old Bochur writes, "Just last week, my mother called me for a 'serious conversation'. I was expecting that it might be the Shidduch talk, but I was not expecting what she actually said." Full Story

124 Comments

Dec 31, 2011

Shidduchim SOS: "You know those dates where five minutes in you know this is absolutely not for you?" A COLlive reader suggests a few practical suggestions to improve the shidduch system. Full Story

53 Comments

Dec 28, 2011

Shidduchim SOS: "I've lived in Crown Heights for seven years, and was set up once a year with another mismatched shidduch, by people who barely knew me." Full Story

80 Comments

Dec 6, 2011

Girls daven at the Rebbe's Ohel * Archive photo: Bentzi Sason

A Crown Heights organization that helps kallahs will be praying for 100 boys and girls to find a shidduch - for a fee. Full Story

18 Comments

Nov 16, 2011

Parshas Chayei Sarah: Rabbi Nachman Wilhelm of OnlineSmicha.com reviews the do's and don'ts of shidduch making according to Gemara and commentaries.
Video

8 Comments

Nov 7, 2011

SOS Shidduchim: A bochur offers a humorous glimpse into what he thinks when being asked about a friend for a shidduch. Full Story

88 Comments

Sep 10, 2011

Response to "Dear Chabad Bochur": A 24 year-old single girl defends all the single bochurim out there and has a special thank you to make. Full Story

80 Comments

Sep 7, 2011

Shidduchim SOS: A Lubavitch girl who is "sick and tired of dating drama" has 5 things to tell bochurim in shidduchim.
Full Story

197 Comments

Aug 20, 2011

Illustration photo by Yaakov Rosenthal

How do shaddchanim, both professional and dabblers in the field, think? Here are the 7 methods they use to make a match. Full Story

22 Comments

Aug 15, 2011

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A 25 year-old Lubavitch girl, disappointed by repetitive names being offered by shadchanim, has opened a useful website.
Full Story

73 Comments

Jun 29, 2011

Rivkah Leah Bernath with the Chabad Shidduch Group in Chicago has been involved with over 100 shidduchim over the past five years. Here she speaks about "The Secret Recipe" for finding a shidduch. Audio

29 Comments

Jun 12, 2011

R. B., who wrote about her struggles while Shidduch dating more than a year ago, tells the sequel to her story since she has 'emerged from her own pool of darkness.' Full Story

24 Comments

May 8, 2011

Organizers of Nechama's Closet have visited the Rebbe's Ohel and prayed for over 100 single girls and boys to find a shidduch. Full Story

14 Comments

May 5, 2011

Rabbi Moishe New, Director of the Montreal Torah Center (MTC), offered his take on dating and shidduchim for today's single, during his weekly Torah class. Video

14 Comments

Apr 6, 2011

A memento of the Simpson-Stock wedding includes a segulah the Rebbe wrote to a woman hoping for a shidduch. Full Story

48 Comments

Mar 9, 2011

Illustration photo taken at Mink Jewelers in Crown Heights

A Florida Shlucha told COLlive she is setting up a "single again" service to find shidduchim for divorced and widowed men and women. Full Story

40 Comments
Jan 6, 2011

Shidduchim SOS: How fortunate are we to have the concept of shidduchim, and not (G-d forbid) the secular ideals of "boyfriend" and "girlfriend." Full Story

84 Comments
Dec 21, 2010

A girl looking for a shidduch asks: Why is it that if one doesn't follow the exact 'system', they are considered a 'bum'?
Full Story

256 Comments
Dec 15, 2010

What does a 23 year old bochur think about dating? One bochur writes what he thought about Manis Friedman's lecture on today's shidduch crisis Tuesday evening. Full Story

143 Comments
Aug 22, 2010

Shidduchim SOS: My father wants this bochur, my mother wants that family. And the shadchan thinks I'm the one who is picky. Full Story

143 Comments
Jul 14, 2010

Shidduchim SOS: Chicago Shadchan Rabbi Moishe Raitman has valuable tips for a successful shidduch experience: The do's and don'ts in dealing with a shadchan and what every parent can expect from them. Full Story

60 Comments
Jul 1, 2010

Shidduchim SOS: I may not be a good writer at all, but as a single girl, I would like to shed light on the supposed "shidduch crisis." If my message will get through to at least one person - it's all worth it. Full Story

78 Comments
Jun 20, 2010

Shidduchim SOS: After marrying off her children and arranging 9 shidduchim herself, Mrs. Riva Denburg of Miami Beach writes to COLlive what she thinks of Shadchanim and the Shidduchim process. Full Story

145 Comments
Jun 1, 2010

Shidduchim SOS: If you are going to marry what someone else thinks is good for you, but not what is truly good for you, then you will be miserable. Full Story

80 Comments
May 13, 2010

Shidduchim SOS: All too often my parents are told that the bochur does not want to go out because I am "too chassidish." Saying Chitas is a crime? Full Story

157 Comments
Apr 8, 2010

Shidduchim SOS: I know of some guys who won't fly for a date unless there are 2 or 3 girls lined up to go out with him, just in case the first girl doesn’t work out... Full Story

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Chabad Calendar
TODAY
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Chizuk with the Chevra. Join us for an inspiring and fun-filled farbrengen based on Chassidus of the parsha. led by Miriam Sherr. All women welcome! at 1474 Carroll St (albany/troy)
Wedding
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TODAY
8:30pm
Shiur Gmorah l'iyun in English with Rabbi Sholom Dovid Geisinsky at Ohel nosson crown
TODAY
9:30pm
As per the Horaah of the Rebbe that the direct way to bring Moshiach is to learn Inyonei Geulah U'Moshiach, please join us for a Shiur on Inyonei Geulah U'Moshiach via conference call with Rabbi Shlomo Majeski. Call 712-775-7031 Pin # 820-550-426# To listen to a recording of the Shiur dial 712-775-7029 and enter meeting ID 820-550-426# at via phone
Aug 23
7:30pm
Celebrate Rosh Chodesh Elul by adding in Torah learning with Rabbi Kastel's Tanya shiur. Questions and answers, discussion and stories. Please join us! Feel free to dedicate the class for a birthday, yahrzeit, or other special occasion. at 1236 Carroll Street, btw New York & Nostrand
Aug 23
Wedding: Chaim Mayzlesh - Mexico City, Mexico and Blumi Alpern - S. Paulo, Brazil at Razag
Aug 24
Wedding: JJ Duchman - Los Angeles, CA and Frumie Rosenfeld (SB) - Zurich, Switzerland at Zurich, Switzerland
Aug 24
Wedding: Yehuda Rosenblum - Crown Heights and Racheli Sperlin - Crown Heights at Oholei Torah
Aug 24
L'Chaim: Tani Rapoport - Vineland, NJ to Chanchi Hoch - Pittsburgh, PA at Nemes Hall 309 New York Avenue




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Found Smartphone Sunday 8/20/ Carroll between Kingston And Albany Call 917-971-4604
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My son lost his teffilin in a blue bag that says Wilkes-Barre and the name on the teffilin is Yehuda Hecht.
please contact us VERY IMPORTANT( tefilin he is a leftie)

Yehudahecht0@gmail.com or
3235905567
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Lost a pair of thin-metal rimmed (or half-rimmed) eyeglasses, probably in Crown Heights. If found, can you please text 718-809-5504
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Found sun morning 6:45 am near 829 montgomery crown heights b/t troy/albany near troy men`s short coat gartel keys. Gershon 3477428534

Update
I gave it to a guy who lives on montgomery who said he will drop it off at gutnik 829 montgomery
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Found on Albany avenue off eastern parkway on Monday July 24th
Evenflo Double stroller
With keys and car remote for a Buick on Calvin Klein and coach keychains
Case for Invisalign braces
I left it with leasing Depot
718-493-9300
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Nike Black hyperdunk high top right sneaker left on bus going from Hew Haven YBDS Yeshiva to CH, last month. One of the bochrim took it with him. Please call Yaacov, 203-247-3348.
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FOUND: Chabad Tefilin found in Miami Beach recently. It has a sticker from Moshe Klein that it was checked by him and the name Margolis is written on the bottom of one of the batim.

To claim call 305-525-2742.
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Received a Rebbe's dollar as change in Crown Heights.
If you are missing a dollar bill dated 1988, please contact me at:
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a watch was found in men's mikvah, over a week ago.

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