Shidduchim SOS
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-Yes, I'm Waiting
-That Loving Feeling
-No Dating Romance
-Get Off the High Horse
-Once Upon a Time...
-What Bochurim Think
-Comment #31 Girl
-Why am I Not Married
-We All Know Someone
-What Kallahs Want
-Another Broken Heart?
-Her Parents Rejected Us


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Jun 1, 2016

From the COLlive inbox: The Shadchan and her parents pressured her to meet - and then the bochur was asked... Full Story

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May 23, 2016

From the COLlive inbox: "The shidduch with the first bochur I've liked in four years has ended and I feel like a million bucks..." Full Story

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Dec 19, 2015

From the COLlive Inbox: "Recently there's been a growing trend to blame the guys' side in this game no one enjoys." Full Story

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Oct 20, 2015

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From the COLlive inbox: A shadchan recently said girls should date bochurim who smoke since they will quit. The opposite is true. Full Story

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Aug 20, 2015

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From the COLlive inbox: It's time we take into account the other person's feelings and end the shidduch yourself if it doesn't fit. Full Story

65 Comments

Aug 3, 2015

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From the COLlive inbox: A single Lubavitch woman says the way shidduch offers are described most likely lead to their failure. Full Story

48 Comments

Jul 4, 2015

"There's a common thread of unresolved issues running through the minds of older singles," says shaddchanis Rivkah Leah Bernath. Full Story

36 Comments

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Jun 8, 2015

Op-Ed: Dating before the summer months brings its own set of challenges, making a complicated process even more so. Full Story

37 Comments

May 28, 2015

4 clues how to spot the "shopping" bochurim in the shidduchim scene to avoid heartache and save yourself time and money. Full Story

91 Comments

Feb 2, 2015

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From the COLlive inbox: A single Chabad girl has 2 simple suggestions to help be more sensitive in all matters of dating. Full Story

59 Comments

Jan 5, 2015

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From the COLlive inbox: A mother of 2 single girls has had it with the washed-up excuse from older bochurim for not dating. Full Story

98 Comments

Dec 9, 2014

A new grant from philanthropist Shlomo Yehuda Rechnitz will pay $10,000 for a successful Shidduch match. But, there's a catch. Full Story

101 Comments

Dec 1, 2014

Op-ed: A mother who married off a few children responds to "Why Am I Not 'Shayech'?:" "I am sure that there are people who think I am a snob and a nasty one, too." Full Story

62 Comments

Nov 19, 2014

From the COLlive inbox: After getting my hopes up that this could be 'the one', within 2 hours of speaking to the Shadchan, those 6 words pop up on my screen - "They don't think it's Shayech." Full Story

108 Comments

Oct 26, 2014

From the COLlive inbox: A mother writes a painful public letter to the happily married classmates of her daughter. Full Story

146 Comments

Sep 21, 2014

The International Shidduch Group, directed by Mrs. Elana Bergovoy, recently held a whirlwind series of events in Stamford Hill, Golders Green and in Manchester, UK. Full Story

15 Comments

Aug 8, 2014

After bailing out institutions and releasing a prisoner from Bolivia, Shlomo Yehuda Rechnitz aims to solve the "shidduch crisis." Full Story

23 Comments

May 13, 2014

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With the shidduch process ever more complex, a new pre-dating course helps young adults take the biggest decision of their life seriously. Full Story

17 Comments

Feb 15, 2014

The story of a man who broke off an engagement, how it came back to haunt him some 30 years later and what he did about it. Full Story

16 Comments
Jan 22, 2014

From the COLlive inbox: The rule that a bochur and a girl must go out a least twice, while not interested, is simply ridiculous.
Full Story

72 Comments
Jan 16, 2014

Shaindel and Chani, two single Chabad girls, say the community needs to reassess the strategy and structure of the current shidduch system. Full Story

102 Comments
Jan 15, 2014

From the COLlive inbox: A matchmaker writes about a phone call she got on a Friday afternoon, shortly before Shabbos. Full Story

95 Comments
Oct 20, 2013

From the COLlive inbox: There's about 50 shidduch-aged girls who are being rejected simply because they are "English."
Full Story

279 Comments
Aug 11, 2013

Adai Ad will present "Enhancing your Beautiful Marriage," on building a successful relationship and achieving effective communication. Full Story

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Aug 8, 2013

From the COLlive Inbox: A single girl going through shidduchim says certain dating scenarios have left her confused, wondering "what was the thought process involved?" Full Story

94 Comments
Jul 14, 2013

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From the COLlive Inbox: A girl in Shidduchim writes her perspective as a single girl, while many of her friends are getting engaged. Full Story

97 Comments
Jun 5, 2013

Shidduchim SOS: What does coming late to a Shidduch date say about you? Full Story

30 Comments
May 23, 2013

Rabbi Nachman Wilhelm of Online Smicha discusses what characteristics to look for when considering a shidduch. Video

14 Comments
May 14, 2013

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Shidduchim SOS: A mother of children shares 4 suggestions for singles on what not to do while on a shidduch date.
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37 Comments
Apr 25, 2013

A frum psychotherapist says spending more time with each other does not provide clarity in shidduchim. He also offers 3 tips for finding a bashert. Full Story

34 Comments
Apr 17, 2013

An event by the Adai Ad organization and Shalom Taskforce will answer questions on the mother's role in the shiduchim process. Full Story

30 Comments
Apr 9, 2013

2,237 Lubavitchers are using the frum dating website Harei At. Owner Eli Ostreicher is considering a "Chabad section."
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7 Comments
Mar 30, 2013

Devora Krasnianski of the Adai Ad organization speaks to relationship coach Pearl Mattenson about 6 areas that need clarifying on a shidduch date. Full Story, Video

11 Comments
Feb 26, 2013

Op-Ed: After finally overcoming his "fear of commitment," a recently married Lubavitch man shares tips on how he overcame his fear and finally proposed. Full Story

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Chabad Calendar
TODAY
8:45am
Likkutei Torah class with Rabbi Sholom Dovid Geisinsky on Shabbos morning Korach 8:45-9:45 AM more info on yagdiltorah.org at at Mishkan Menachem (JCM Side Entrance)
TODAY
9:00am
In Honor of Gimmel Tammuz, Rabbi S. Samuels will teach the Ma'amar, "HaSam BaChayim Nafsheinu". at beis midrash lanoshim,770
TODAY
5:00pm
Join us this Shabbos for a farbrengen with Rabbi Raskin at 5pm @ The Lounge!! Don't miss an opportunity to get inspired! at 556 Crown Street, The Lounge
TODAY
5:30pm
PIRKEI AVOS SHIUR AND SPECIAL GIMMEL TAMMUZ FARBRENGEN - 5:30-7:00 PM.- MRS. TZUKERNIK AND A SHLUCHA- PLEASE COME AND BE INSPIRED- PLEASE COME AND BRING A FRIEND!!!! at CONGREGATION ANASH - 770 MONTGOMERY STREET - FRONT ENTRANCE
TODAY
6:30pm
Rabbi S. Bluming will teach the Sicha, Dvar Malchut, Gimmel Tammuz, 5751. at beis midrash lanoshim,770
TODAY
8:00pm
There will be a Farbrengen in honor of Gimmel Tammuz led by Rabbi S. Samuels. at beis midrash lanoshim,770
TODAY
11:15pm
MELAVE MALKA ROSH CHODESH TAMMUZ - In honor of Gimmel Tammuz at 11:15 p.m. at 770-Beis Mosiach a delicious Meal will be served. We will also listen to a guest speaker. Everyone is invited. at beis midrash lanoshim,770
Jun 25
Wedding: Peretz Kaplan - Montreal, Canada and Sara Katz - Crown Heights at Oholei Torah
Jun 25
Wedding: Avremel Minsky - Crown Heights and Mushka Paltiel - Port Washington, NY at Razag
Jun 25
8:15pm
Menachem Bruchstat obm Shloshim at Beis Rivkah Shul 310 crown street
Jun 25
L'Chaim: Rafa Michaan - Brazil to Devorah Leah Soussan - Montreal at Nemes hall
Jun 25
L'Chaim: Avrohom Moshe Dyce - Sydney, Australia to Chana Albukerk - Crown Heights at F.R.E.E
Jun 26
9:30am
The Levi Yitzchok Library: Women & Children join us for the first week of Summer Yiddish Mommy & Me with Mrs. Chanie Brod at 305 Kingston Avenue
Jun 26
11:00am
Scooters and Cruzers & Mommy Fun at The Crown Heights Community Garden, at 1408 President Street
Jun 26
1:00pm
Siyum Sefer Torah Mispachas Hamelech 5PM Seudas Mitzvah at 10 oclock at 770 - shul
Jun 26
7:00pm
Join us for inspired art for Women with Chava Hindsey in the Crown Heights Community Garden, at 1408 President Street
Jun 26
Wedding: Menachem Yiftach - Los Angeles, California and Shaina Samuels - Crown Heights at Oholei Torah
Jun 26
8:00pm
Gimmel Tammuz on Eastern Parkway, where Chassidim will unite to see and hear the Rebbe. The event which will take place in front of Beis Chayeinu - 770. Monday evening, Leil Gimmel Tammuz, June 26, 8:30 - 9:30PM. ‘Retzoneinu Liros Es Malkeinu, Let’s Prepare, The Time Is Near’. The program will include a beautiful collection of Sichos and Nigunnim which was prepared especially for this event. All Men, Women, and children are asked to participate in this historic event. at Eastern Parkway




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HASHOVAS AVEIDA
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Lost a key ring with a few keys on Kingston Ave on Wednesday, June 21st. Please call me if you found them. Thanks. 6467701344
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I found a gartel on Albany between Empire and Lefferts. Text 718-594-2765 with a Simon.
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Mistakenly Tallis Swapped in 770
Shabbos Chazak, Parshas Behar -Bechukosai
9176917935
cohensc@gmail.com
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Found earing day of lag baomer parade 7189026872 dvorahlawrence@gmail.com
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Hi, I lost a bag with 2 sheitals and a wig piece somewhere on Kingston, crown or troy. My contact is chana 7187249792
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A nursing apron/cover was found right outside razag, Tuesday night, during the pruss/ Golomb wedding. To claim please call 917-564-4973
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Lost a gold wedding band ring on Shavuos. If found please
call 917-972-5746. Thank you.
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Chitas found today on maple st and Troy - if it may be yours please text 917-544-9911 asap - thanks!
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Sunday, June 4 in the afternoon I lost a black plastic shopping bag with a few yarmulkes, pairs of socks and a tie. probably on or kingston, or in the marketplace or possibly East New York btwn Kingston and Brooklyn or Brooklyn south of East NY. Seems it might have fallen out of my stroller.
Thanks!
310-850-2987
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If you lost a wallet, (or if you know Rafael Abitbol)
Please call Zalman @ 917-364-1013
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Lost: A leather siddur and one volume of Likutei Sichos on Shavuos. My name is inside both. Please Contact (917)-841-7236 if found
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Found a little girls pair of earrings in the oholei Torah pool call with simonim. 17186139306
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Lost

LG wireless stereo headset at LAG bOmer parade.
color white
646-285-4461
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Found necklace pendant on Montgomery st. On Friday.
310 920 5909
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