Shidduchim SOS
-2 Sides to Shidduch
-Yes, I'm Waiting
-That Loving Feeling
-No Dating Romance
-Get Off the High Horse
-Once Upon a Time...
-What Bochurim Think
-Comment #31 Girl
-Why am I Not Married
-We All Know Someone
-What Kallahs Want
-Another Broken Heart?
-Her Parents Rejected Us


Shabbos Night Live
-Rabbi Butman - English
-Rabbi Butman - Hebrew
Jun 1, 2016

From the COLlive inbox: The Shadchan and her parents pressured her to meet - and then the bochur was asked... Full Story

79 Comments

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May 23, 2016

From the COLlive inbox: "The shidduch with the first bochur I've liked in four years has ended and I feel like a million bucks..." Full Story

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Dec 19, 2015

From the COLlive Inbox: "Recently there's been a growing trend to blame the guys' side in this game no one enjoys." Full Story

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Oct 20, 2015

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From the COLlive inbox: A shadchan recently said girls should date bochurim who smoke since they will quit. The opposite is true. Full Story

83 Comments

Aug 20, 2015

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From the COLlive inbox: It's time we take into account the other person's feelings and end the shidduch yourself if it doesn't fit. Full Story

65 Comments

Aug 3, 2015

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From the COLlive inbox: A single Lubavitch woman says the way shidduch offers are described most likely lead to their failure. Full Story

48 Comments

Jul 4, 2015

"There's a common thread of unresolved issues running through the minds of older singles," says shaddchanis Rivkah Leah Bernath. Full Story

36 Comments

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Jun 8, 2015

Op-Ed: Dating before the summer months brings its own set of challenges, making a complicated process even more so. Full Story

37 Comments

May 28, 2015

4 clues how to spot the "shopping" bochurim in the shidduchim scene to avoid heartache and save yourself time and money. Full Story

91 Comments

Feb 2, 2015

Illustration photo: Chana Blumes Photography

From the COLlive inbox: A single Chabad girl has 2 simple suggestions to help be more sensitive in all matters of dating. Full Story

58 Comments

Jan 5, 2015

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From the COLlive inbox: A mother of 2 single girls has had it with the washed-up excuse from older bochurim for not dating. Full Story

98 Comments

Dec 9, 2014

A new grant from philanthropist Shlomo Yehuda Rechnitz will pay $10,000 for a successful Shidduch match. But, there's a catch. Full Story

101 Comments

Dec 1, 2014

Op-ed: A mother who married off a few children responds to "Why Am I Not 'Shayech'?:" "I am sure that there are people who think I am a snob and a nasty one, too." Full Story

62 Comments

Nov 19, 2014

From the COLlive inbox: After getting my hopes up that this could be 'the one', within 2 hours of speaking to the Shadchan, those 6 words pop up on my screen - "They don't think it's Shayech." Full Story

108 Comments

Oct 26, 2014

From the COLlive inbox: A mother writes a painful public letter to the happily married classmates of her daughter. Full Story

146 Comments

Sep 21, 2014

The International Shidduch Group, directed by Mrs. Elana Bergovoy, recently held a whirlwind series of events in Stamford Hill, Golders Green and in Manchester, UK. Full Story

15 Comments

Aug 8, 2014

After bailing out institutions and releasing a prisoner from Bolivia, Shlomo Yehuda Rechnitz aims to solve the "shidduch crisis." Full Story

23 Comments

May 13, 2014

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With the shidduch process ever more complex, a new pre-dating course helps young adults take the biggest decision of their life seriously. Full Story

17 Comments
Feb 15, 2014

The story of a man who broke off an engagement, how it came back to haunt him some 30 years later and what he did about it. Full Story

16 Comments
Jan 22, 2014

From the COLlive inbox: The rule that a bochur and a girl must go out a least twice, while not interested, is simply ridiculous.
Full Story

72 Comments
Jan 16, 2014

Shaindel and Chani, two single Chabad girls, say the community needs to reassess the strategy and structure of the current shidduch system. Full Story

102 Comments
Jan 15, 2014

From the COLlive inbox: A matchmaker writes about a phone call she got on a Friday afternoon, shortly before Shabbos. Full Story

93 Comments
Oct 20, 2013

From the COLlive inbox: There's about 50 shidduch-aged girls who are being rejected simply because they are "English."
Full Story

279 Comments
Aug 11, 2013

Adai Ad will present "Enhancing your Beautiful Marriage," on building a successful relationship and achieving effective communication. Full Story

3 Comments
Aug 8, 2013

From the COLlive Inbox: A single girl going through shidduchim says certain dating scenarios have left her confused, wondering "what was the thought process involved?" Full Story

94 Comments
Jul 14, 2013

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From the COLlive Inbox: A girl in Shidduchim writes her perspective as a single girl, while many of her friends are getting engaged. Full Story

97 Comments
Jun 5, 2013

Shidduchim SOS: What does coming late to a Shidduch date say about you? Full Story

30 Comments
May 23, 2013

Rabbi Nachman Wilhelm of Online Smicha discusses what characteristics to look for when considering a shidduch. Video

14 Comments
May 14, 2013

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Shidduchim SOS: A mother of children shares 4 suggestions for singles on what not to do while on a shidduch date.
Full Story

37 Comments
Apr 25, 2013

A frum psychotherapist says spending more time with each other does not provide clarity in shidduchim. He also offers 3 tips for finding a bashert. Full Story

34 Comments
Apr 17, 2013

An event by the Adai Ad organization and Shalom Taskforce will answer questions on the mother's role in the shiduchim process. Full Story

30 Comments
Apr 9, 2013

2,237 Lubavitchers are using the frum dating website Harei At. Owner Eli Ostreicher is considering a "Chabad section."
Full Story, Video

7 Comments
Mar 30, 2013

Devora Krasnianski of the Adai Ad organization speaks to relationship coach Pearl Mattenson about 6 areas that need clarifying on a shidduch date. Full Story, Video

11 Comments
Feb 26, 2013

Op-Ed: After finally overcoming his "fear of commitment," a recently married Lubavitch man shares tips on how he overcame his fear and finally proposed. Full Story

61 Comments
Jan 28, 2013

From the COLlive inbox: A 23-year-old bochur in Shidduchim wonders whether it is really a good idea to send a photo before a date. Full Story

144 Comments
Dec 19, 2012

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With the shidduch process ever complex, a new pre-dating course for bochurim and girls will begin in the next few weeks.
Full Story

36 Comments
Nov 22, 2012

Illustration photo by Mendel Meyers

Shidduchim SOS: Why would a mother with an eligible daughter treat a prospective girl for her son with minimal respect? Full Story

138 Comments
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Chabad Calendar
TODAY
11:00am
HaKhel with the Chevra. Join us for an inspiring and fun-filled farbrengen based on Chassidus of the parsha. led by Miriam Sherr. All women (and babies) welcome! at 1474 CARROLL STREET(albany/troy)
TODAY
11:00am
HaKhel with the Chevra. Join us for an inspiring and fun-filled farbrengen based on Chassidus of the parsha. led by Miriam Sherr. All women (and babies) welcome! at 1474 CARROLL STREET(albany/troy)
TODAY
7:30pm
The Shloshim for Nachman Yaakov Ziskind will iyh be taking place at Aliya Shul. All are welcome! at Aliya 525-527 E NY Ave. (Btwn Kingston and Albany Aves.)
TODAY
7:30pm
The Shloshim for Nachman Yaakov Ziskind will iyh be taking place at Aliya Shul. All are welcome! at Aliya 525-527 E NY Ave. (Btwn Kingston and Albany Aves.)
Wedding
Mendel Yomtovyan - Kadima, Isreal and Chaya Malka Ben-Chayon - Crown Hieghts at Oholei Torah
Wedding
Zalmy Kreiman - Palm Springs, CA and Tzipporah Esther Schild - Monsey, NY at Razag
TODAY
9:30pm
As per the Horaah of the Rebbe that the direct way to bring Moshiach is to learn Inyonei Geulah U'Moshiach, please join us for a Shiur on Inyonei Geulah U'Moshiach via conference call with Rabbi Shlomo Majeski. Call 712-775-7031 Pin # 820-550-426# To listen to a recording of the Shiur dial 712-775-7029 and enter meeting ID 820-550-426# at via phone
Aug 31
7:30pm
Tanya with Rabbi Kastel, using text with questions and answers. One hour. Please come and dedicate the class for a loved one or special occasion. Learn how all these lofty levels help us thrive in our everyday lives! at 1236 Carroll Street, btw New York & Nostrand
Aug 31
Wedding: Chaim Junik - Crown Heights and Sarah Tiefenbrun - Crown Heights at Oholei Torah
Aug 31
Wedding: Motti Rubin - Albany, NY and Chanale Paltiel - Crown Heights at Razag Hall




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HASHOVAS AVEIDA
-Found car keys
Kingston and empire
7188645185
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I found this pocket book last week in 770.
It says it belongs to
Do you know who that is? Or how to contact him?
Let me know so I can return it or buy it from him.
reuvencentner@gmail.com
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Leather Siddur found in subway Kingston avenue station, on 8/28/2016. 7189382167
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lost a pink ipod near president ans schnectaty. call 315-727-3164 to return.
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Money found late Friday morning on Kingston Avenue between Crown and Carroll Streets-on the even # side of the street. Call 718 373 1556 and give simonim.
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recovered tefilin
chabad gasos recovered from goy. If your tefilin were lost or stolen call me.
7188094414
thesofer@yahoo.com
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Keys Lost Wednesday August 17. One black car key together with big red master key and a few smaller keys. Keychain had a red tag with car details.

Lost in the vicinty of the corner of President and Brooklyn or in Oholei Torah.
If found please contact:3475121890
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My talis and tfilin bag was taken from the kollel entrance on sunday august 21th
The bag is a black from kinus hashluchim inside a leather bag with name shneur zalman mergui.
contact zalmenm@gmail.com

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NY benefit card for Abraham S. found Sunday morning (17 av) on the corner of Albany and President. Contact Yitzhok at 718-569-8602.
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YAACOV GOODMAN LOST AN AMERICAN EXPRESS CARD ON THE #43 BUS THIS EVENING. CALL 718-774-6533
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Tefillin of Sholom Ber Fleisher were found in Kahan's Superette. Please go to counter to claim.

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A white Koshertown bag containing a tablet, some papers and pens, and a few other items was left in 770 Montgomery shul last Wednesday. If you know of its whereabouts, please contact 347-446-0944.
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Found earring with diamond hanging. found on union street,a month ago . inquire at front desk in community council
718 778 8898 # 7701
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money found in Lubavitcher Yeshiva, when Ohaley Menachem came to join ULY . call 718 7734864
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2 lost items.
Keter tallis wth the label cut off. My tallis was taken by mistake at Mikvah Mayer.
Black weightlifting belt. VALEO, the brand is written in white. Somewhere between Montgomery and Albany, Kingston and empire or Kingston and Lefferts. Fell out of my bag.
Thank you 8182677122 mydelerb@gmail.com
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I found on Thursday July 28, 2 keys. If you lost your keys around brooklyn ave bet Crown and Montgomery they might be yours.
Email me @ deeentee7@gmail.com

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FOUND: Tefillin of Menachem Mendel Polansky in Kahan's Superette on Kingston Avenue. Come into store to claim.

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Lost: A blue material bag used for eye glasses, with very important cards inside. It was lost today on Eastern Parkway between Albany & Kingston.

If someone finds it can you be so kind and get in touch with us! 718-363-0102
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Found Chitas
Black leather with name:
Heidiho1234@yahoo.com
347-277-0302
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I lost a jewelry box filled with jewelry on Crown St bet. Bklyn and N.Y. two weeks ago. Opens in middle with a zipper, animal-print design.
4438826388

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Lost: Yellow gold flat wedding band. If found please contact 3476935259.
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Found - on President St between Kingston and Albany - a big key ring with many car keys. Please call 718-809-5504.
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