Shidduchim SOS
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-Yes, I'm Waiting
-That Loving Feeling
-No Dating Romance
-Get Off the High Horse
-Once Upon a Time...
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-Comment #31 Girl
-Why am I Not Married
-We All Know Someone
-What Kallahs Want
-Another Broken Heart?
-Her Parents Rejected Us


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Dec 19, 2015

From the COLlive Inbox: "Recently there's been a growing trend to blame the guys' side in this game no one enjoys." Full Story

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Oct 20, 2015

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From the COLlive inbox: A shadchan recently said girls should date bochurim who smoke since they will quit. The opposite is true. Full Story

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Aug 20, 2015

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From the COLlive inbox: It's time we take into account the other person's feelings and end the shidduch yourself if it doesn't fit. Full Story

65 Comments

Aug 3, 2015

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From the COLlive inbox: A single Lubavitch woman says the way shidduch offers are described most likely lead to their failure. Full Story

48 Comments

Jul 4, 2015

"There's a common thread of unresolved issues running through the minds of older singles," says shaddchanis Rivkah Leah Bernath. Full Story

35 Comments

Jun 8, 2015

Op-Ed: Dating before the summer months brings its own set of challenges, making a complicated process even more so. Full Story

37 Comments

May 28, 2015

4 clues how to spot the "shopping" bochurim in the shidduchim scene to avoid heartache and save yourself time and money. Full Story

91 Comments

Feb 2, 2015

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From the COLlive inbox: A single Chabad girl has 2 simple suggestions to help be more sensitive in all matters of dating. Full Story

58 Comments

Jan 5, 2015

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From the COLlive inbox: A mother of 2 single girls has had it with the washed-up excuse from older bochurim for not dating. Full Story

98 Comments

Dec 9, 2014

A new grant from philanthropist Shlomo Yehuda Rechnitz will pay $10,000 for a successful Shidduch match. But, there's a catch. Full Story

99 Comments

Dec 1, 2014

Op-ed: A mother who married off a few children responds to "Why Am I Not 'Shayech'?:" "I am sure that there are people who think I am a snob and a nasty one, too." Full Story

62 Comments

Nov 19, 2014

From the COLlive inbox: After getting my hopes up that this could be 'the one', within 2 hours of speaking to the Shadchan, those 6 words pop up on my screen - "They don't think it's Shayech." Full Story

108 Comments

Oct 26, 2014

From the COLlive inbox: A mother writes a painful public letter to the happily married classmates of her daughter. Full Story

146 Comments

Sep 21, 2014

The International Shidduch Group, directed by Mrs. Elana Bergovoy, recently held a whirlwind series of events in Stamford Hill, Golders Green and in Manchester, UK. Full Story

15 Comments

Aug 8, 2014

After bailing out institutions and releasing a prisoner from Bolivia, Shlomo Yehuda Rechnitz aims to solve the "shidduch crisis." Full Story

23 Comments

May 13, 2014

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With the shidduch process ever more complex, a new pre-dating course helps young adults take the biggest decision of their life seriously. Full Story

17 Comments

Feb 15, 2014

The story of a man who broke off an engagement, how it came back to haunt him some 30 years later and what he did about it. Full Story

16 Comments

Jan 22, 2014

From the COLlive inbox: The rule that a bochur and a girl must go out a least twice, while not interested, is simply ridiculous.
Full Story

72 Comments

Jan 16, 2014

Shaindel and Chani, two single Chabad girls, say the community needs to reassess the strategy and structure of the current shidduch system. Full Story

102 Comments

Jan 15, 2014

From the COLlive inbox: A matchmaker writes about a phone call she got on a Friday afternoon, shortly before Shabbos. Full Story

93 Comments

Oct 20, 2013

From the COLlive inbox: There's about 50 shidduch-aged girls who are being rejected simply because they are "English."
Full Story

279 Comments

Aug 11, 2013

Adai Ad will present "Enhancing your Beautiful Marriage," on building a successful relationship and achieving effective communication. Full Story

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Aug 8, 2013

From the COLlive Inbox: A single girl going through shidduchim says certain dating scenarios have left her confused, wondering "what was the thought process involved?" Full Story

94 Comments

Jul 14, 2013

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From the COLlive Inbox: A girl in Shidduchim writes her perspective as a single girl, while many of her friends are getting engaged. Full Story

97 Comments

Jun 5, 2013

Shidduchim SOS: What does coming late to a Shidduch date say about you? Full Story

30 Comments

May 23, 2013

Rabbi Nachman Wilhelm of Online Smicha discusses what characteristics to look for when considering a shidduch. Video

14 Comments

May 14, 2013

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Shidduchim SOS: A mother of children shares 4 suggestions for singles on what not to do while on a shidduch date.
Full Story

37 Comments

Apr 25, 2013

A frum psychotherapist says spending more time with each other does not provide clarity in shidduchim. He also offers 3 tips for finding a bashert. Full Story

34 Comments
Apr 17, 2013

An event by the Adai Ad organization and Shalom Taskforce will answer questions on the mother's role in the shiduchim process. Full Story

30 Comments
Apr 9, 2013

2,237 Lubavitchers are using the frum dating website Harei At. Owner Eli Ostreicher is considering a "Chabad section."
Full Story, Video

7 Comments
Mar 30, 2013

Devora Krasnianski of the Adai Ad organization speaks to relationship coach Pearl Mattenson about 6 areas that need clarifying on a shidduch date. Full Story, Video

11 Comments
Feb 26, 2013

Op-Ed: After finally overcoming his "fear of commitment," a recently married Lubavitch man shares tips on how he overcame his fear and finally proposed. Full Story

61 Comments
Jan 28, 2013

From the COLlive inbox: A 23-year-old bochur in Shidduchim wonders whether it is really a good idea to send a photo before a date. Full Story

144 Comments
Dec 19, 2012

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With the shidduch process ever complex, a new pre-dating course for bochurim and girls will begin in the next few weeks.
Full Story

36 Comments
Nov 22, 2012

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Shidduchim SOS: Why would a mother with an eligible daughter treat a prospective girl for her son with minimal respect? Full Story

138 Comments
Oct 22, 2012

Illustration photo by Israel Bardugo

In a letter to be published in an upcoming Igros Kodesh volume, the Rebbe says shidduchim between Ashkenazim and Sephardim "pair up nicely." Full Story

59 Comments
Oct 6, 2012

COLlive exclusive: Marriage classes are a must among Chabad couples. Now a pre-dating course of 8 sessions was developed in Crown Heights. Full Story

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Chabad Calendar
TODAY
1:00pm
Mothers of Mothers Learning GroupJoin with other mothers for a round table discussion group and learn the Chassidic perspective to support you in your role of parenting older and married children! Guest Moderator Mrs. Chanie Friedman will be joining this week! at Levi Yitzchok Library- 305 Kingston Ave
TODAY
7:30pm
CHYE proudly presents: A business event for women Get Ahead! Strategies for getting ahead in your business and workplace. A panel discussion with Mrs Julie Gniwisch, President Delmar jewelers Mrs Devorah Halberstam Mrs Devoree Axelrod , GM AJ Madison Moderated by Mrs Chaya Abelsky WhenMonday 29 Shvat/Feb 8th 7:30pm WhereULY Crown St 470 Crown St Side entrance Cost$5 with advanced reservation otherwise $10 at the door at ULY Crown St
TODAY
8:00pm
All women and girls are invited to an evening of strenght and simcha and a Hakhel Rosh Chodesh Adar Alef shiur with our featured speaker Mrs. SARA BALKANY Feb 8, 29 adar, at the home of Mrs Miriam Feldman, $3 suggested donation enters you into a raffle for a jewelry ensemble sponsored by Little Toes at Home of Miriam Feldman 1401 President st Corner Kingston
TODAY
8:00pm
The Rosh Chodesh Committee of Neshei Ubnos Chabad invites you to an evening with speakerMrs. Sara Balkany. Entertainment Guitar/singing with Mrs. Malka Edery in honor of Rosh Chodesh Adar. This Monday evening at 8;00 pm at the home of Mrs. Miriam Feldman. $3 enters you into an exciting jewelry raffle donated by Little Toes. Hope to see you there! at 1401 President st
TODAY
8:15pm
Junior Nshei presents 'FOOD FOR LIFE' Part 1 of four week seriesNAVIGATING THE WORLD OF HECHSHEIRIM with RABBI YITZCHAK HANOKA. Join all 4 events and enter to win a Rebbe dollar! at 556 crown street
L'Chaim
Shevach Tamir - Miami Beach, FL/Crown Heights to Devorah Kazarnovsky - Johannesburg, South Africa at Jewish Children's Museum
Feb 9
11:00am
Raise a Chosid Discussion Group: Join with fellow mothers for a discussion on the awesome job of motherhood and parenting young children according to chassidus! at Levi Yitzchok Library- 305 Kingston Ave
Feb 9
Wedding: chanina wanger - tzfas isral and rina basger - montreal Canada at bais rivka
Feb 10
10:00am
Mommy & Me at the Library! Enjoy fresh snacks, toys, music and play in an environment that is safe, fun and educational for both you and your baby! $5 fee per family, geared for ages 0-2 at Levi Yitzchok Library- 305 Kingston Ave




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-Rabbi Mordechai Gurary will be sitting shiva for his sister Mrs. Rochel Baum, at his home in Crown Heights, 636 Empire Blvd. between Kingston and Albany, from Motzei Shabbos till Monday afternoon at 4:00.  He will then be going to Cedarhurst- 21 Lotus St.- to sit with his nephews till Tuesday morning.


HASHOVAS AVEIDA
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on a ride back from Ohel a bochur left a Marks&Spencer pullover sweater that says Lambswool it is reddish and black
please email Yonahavtzon@gmail.com
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If you wear a 44R Kapoteh from Tzemach Menswear, Montreal, and you went to the Mikva on Friday, 26 Shvat, at Carroll and Schnectaty, then you took my Kapoteh. Your's is still hanging there. Please go exchange them or conact me. 315-727-3164
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FOUND:
DIAMOND EARRING
CALL TO IDENTIFY
7184389497
SARA@SAPOSHLINGERIE.COM
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A Shlucha borrowed my leather siddur, on Thursday at the armory, and I did not get it back. It has the name Bayla on the cover. If you have it, or have info about it, please call 438-939-5037. Thanks.
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Found a silver ring with little diamonds on Brooklyn ave. Between Crown and Montgomery. Contact: (347)200 0632
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A leather covered chitas with the name "Ateŕa Zaadle"was left by me. Please get it.
7184930852

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Found a portable charger by Oholei Torah last night after the Brikmans wedding.call w simonim
718 974 3677
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I lost my coat in 770 during Yud/Yud Alef Shevat after farbrengen.

Black wool coat size 18
It's says "Levinson" in Hebrew inside.
Please call 7182137058 or 7184677682
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Found a kovetz with a dollar, probably was left at my house years ago. The owner was apparently an Israeli bochur who has been on shlichus to Mexico. Description posted here:

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posts/XLoKd2A3bKV
718-569-8602


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