Shidduchim SOS
-2 Sides to Shidduch
-Yes, I'm Waiting
-That Loving Feeling
-No Dating Romance
-Get Off the High Horse
-Once Upon a Time...
-What Bochurim Think
-Comment #31 Girl
-Why am I Not Married
-We All Know Someone
-What Kallahs Want
-Another Broken Heart?
-Her Parents Rejected Us


Shabbos Night Live
-Rabbi Butman - English
-Rabbi Butman - Hebrew
Jun 1, 2016

From the COLlive inbox: The Shadchan and her parents pressured her to meet - and then the bochur was asked... Full Story

82 Comments

Advertisement
Oholei Torah PTA Achdus Basket Project

Send your neighbors, families, and friends a beautiful Shalach Monos package that we pack and deliver for you. Enjoy your “hassle free” Purim!

For six dollars a name, you don’t want to leave anyone out!
A separate Community Member Listing is included for your convenience.

Order at www.oholeitorah.com

Or for more information please call:
Sara Popack (718) 735-2484, Shuffi Telsner (718) 774-2778, Aida Junik (718) 953-3197

Also offering a variety of beautifully arranged Shalach Monos baskets ranging in price from $6 to $120

Place your orders at www.purimbasketsot.com
TO ORDER BY PHONE PLEASE CALL:
Chani Neubort (718) 778-4881
Esther Rivka Telsner (718) 774-1301
Aida Junik (718) 953-3197

May 23, 2016

From the COLlive inbox: "The shidduch with the first bochur I've liked in four years has ended and I feel like a million bucks..." Full Story

83 Comments

Dec 19, 2015

From the COLlive Inbox: "Recently there's been a growing trend to blame the guys' side in this game no one enjoys." Full Story

66 Comments

Advertisement
50% OFF LIMITED OFFER

Auction This Sunday Final Days
www.mychabadauction.com

$100,000 worth of Prizes

Private Jet Getaway Vacation for 6

All the Latest Apple Electronics


Exclusive Coupon Code “HI” for First 25 Orders Only for 50% Plus Ticket Discount

Order by phone
908-238-9002 or 908-623-7000

Support a great cause, do a mitzvah and win big!
Auction is this Sunday, March 5th

www.mychabadauction.com
Oct 20, 2015

Illustration photo by Graur Codrin

From the COLlive inbox: A shadchan recently said girls should date bochurim who smoke since they will quit. The opposite is true. Full Story

83 Comments

Aug 20, 2015

Photo: Nenetus

From the COLlive inbox: It's time we take into account the other person's feelings and end the shidduch yourself if it doesn't fit. Full Story

65 Comments

Aug 3, 2015

Illustration photo by winnond

From the COLlive inbox: A single Lubavitch woman says the way shidduch offers are described most likely lead to their failure. Full Story

48 Comments

Jul 4, 2015

"There's a common thread of unresolved issues running through the minds of older singles," says shaddchanis Rivkah Leah Bernath. Full Story

36 Comments

Advertisement
Children's Designer Clothing Pop Up Sale

Division of carousel kids clothing,
Children's designer clothing pop up sale

Everything 70 % or more off

1000's of pieces of boys and girls clothing
Monnalisa, Juste Cle, Valmax , Steiff , Sonia Rykiel, Miss meme and many many more brands

427 Kingston Ave.
Sunday - Thursday 10:00am - 7:00pm
Friday 10:00am - 3:00pm

All major credit cards accepted

Last day 3/2
Follow us on Instagram @carouselkidsclothing
Jun 8, 2015

Op-Ed: Dating before the summer months brings its own set of challenges, making a complicated process even more so. Full Story

37 Comments

May 28, 2015

4 clues how to spot the "shopping" bochurim in the shidduchim scene to avoid heartache and save yourself time and money. Full Story

91 Comments

Advertisement
Happy and Healthy PAL Sale!

2017 Nissan Sentra SV
Bluetooth, Backup Camera,
24 or 36 months, 12K Miles / Year
$129 Per Month
(At Signing – Taxes, $595 Bank Fee & Registration Fees)

2017 Hyundai Sonata LIMITED!!!
Leather, Heated Seats, Sunroof
Backup Camera, 36 months, 10K Mile / Year
$209 Per Month
(At Signing – Taxes, $595 Bank Fee & Registration Fees)

2017 Jeep Compass High Altitude
Leather, Sunroof, Backup Camera
36 months, 7.5K Miles / Year
$139 Per Month
(At Signing – Taxes, $895 Bank Fee & Registration Fees)

2017 Jeep Grand Cherokee Laredo
Bluetooth, Backup Camera
36 months, 7.5K Miles / Year
$229 Per Month
(At Signing – Taxes, $895 Bank Fee & Registration Fees)

Damage Waiver Available on New and Pre-Owned!

Call 718-975-9000
or Click Here to Get These Deals www.plazaautoleasing.com

Feb 2, 2015

Illustration photo: Chana Blumes Photography

From the COLlive inbox: A single Chabad girl has 2 simple suggestions to help be more sensitive in all matters of dating. Full Story

59 Comments

Jan 5, 2015

Illustration photo by Atalia Katz

From the COLlive inbox: A mother of 2 single girls has had it with the washed-up excuse from older bochurim for not dating. Full Story

98 Comments

Dec 9, 2014

A new grant from philanthropist Shlomo Yehuda Rechnitz will pay $10,000 for a successful Shidduch match. But, there's a catch. Full Story

101 Comments

Dec 1, 2014

Op-ed: A mother who married off a few children responds to "Why Am I Not 'Shayech'?:" "I am sure that there are people who think I am a snob and a nasty one, too." Full Story

62 Comments

Nov 19, 2014

From the COLlive inbox: After getting my hopes up that this could be 'the one', within 2 hours of speaking to the Shadchan, those 6 words pop up on my screen - "They don't think it's Shayech." Full Story

108 Comments

Oct 26, 2014

From the COLlive inbox: A mother writes a painful public letter to the happily married classmates of her daughter. Full Story

146 Comments

Sep 21, 2014

The International Shidduch Group, directed by Mrs. Elana Bergovoy, recently held a whirlwind series of events in Stamford Hill, Golders Green and in Manchester, UK. Full Story

15 Comments

Aug 8, 2014

After bailing out institutions and releasing a prisoner from Bolivia, Shlomo Yehuda Rechnitz aims to solve the "shidduch crisis." Full Story

23 Comments

May 13, 2014

Illustration photo*not connected to the article

With the shidduch process ever more complex, a new pre-dating course helps young adults take the biggest decision of their life seriously. Full Story

17 Comments

Feb 15, 2014

The story of a man who broke off an engagement, how it came back to haunt him some 30 years later and what he did about it. Full Story

16 Comments

Jan 22, 2014

From the COLlive inbox: The rule that a bochur and a girl must go out a least twice, while not interested, is simply ridiculous.
Full Story

72 Comments

Jan 16, 2014

Shaindel and Chani, two single Chabad girls, say the community needs to reassess the strategy and structure of the current shidduch system. Full Story

102 Comments

Jan 15, 2014

From the COLlive inbox: A matchmaker writes about a phone call she got on a Friday afternoon, shortly before Shabbos. Full Story

95 Comments

Oct 20, 2013

From the COLlive inbox: There's about 50 shidduch-aged girls who are being rejected simply because they are "English."
Full Story

279 Comments
Aug 11, 2013

Adai Ad will present "Enhancing your Beautiful Marriage," on building a successful relationship and achieving effective communication. Full Story

3 Comments

Aug 8, 2013

From the COLlive Inbox: A single girl going through shidduchim says certain dating scenarios have left her confused, wondering "what was the thought process involved?" Full Story

94 Comments

Jul 14, 2013

Illustration photo

From the COLlive Inbox: A girl in Shidduchim writes her perspective as a single girl, while many of her friends are getting engaged. Full Story

97 Comments

Jun 5, 2013

Shidduchim SOS: What does coming late to a Shidduch date say about you? Full Story

30 Comments

May 23, 2013

Rabbi Nachman Wilhelm of Online Smicha discusses what characteristics to look for when considering a shidduch. Video

14 Comments
May 14, 2013

The Two E Bar/Lounge at the The Pierre - a Taj Hotel in New York City

Shidduchim SOS: A mother of children shares 4 suggestions for singles on what not to do while on a shidduch date.
Full Story

37 Comments
Apr 25, 2013

A frum psychotherapist says spending more time with each other does not provide clarity in shidduchim. He also offers 3 tips for finding a bashert. Full Story

34 Comments
Apr 17, 2013

An event by the Adai Ad organization and Shalom Taskforce will answer questions on the mother's role in the shiduchim process. Full Story

30 Comments
Apr 9, 2013

2,237 Lubavitchers are using the frum dating website Harei At. Owner Eli Ostreicher is considering a "Chabad section."
Full Story, Video

7 Comments
Mar 30, 2013

Devora Krasnianski of the Adai Ad organization speaks to relationship coach Pearl Mattenson about 6 areas that need clarifying on a shidduch date. Full Story, Video

11 Comments
Feb 26, 2013

Op-Ed: After finally overcoming his "fear of commitment," a recently married Lubavitch man shares tips on how he overcame his fear and finally proposed. Full Story

61 Comments
Jan 28, 2013

From the COLlive inbox: A 23-year-old bochur in Shidduchim wonders whether it is really a good idea to send a photo before a date. Full Story

144 Comments
Dec 19, 2012

Illustration photo. Individuals pictured have no connection to the article

With the shidduch process ever complex, a new pre-dating course for bochurim and girls will begin in the next few weeks.
Full Story

36 Comments
Nov 22, 2012

Illustration photo by Mendel Meyers

Shidduchim SOS: Why would a mother with an eligible daughter treat a prospective girl for her son with minimal respect? Full Story

138 Comments
Next Page »
Chabad Calendar
TODAY
8:45am
Torah Ohr class with Rabbi Yossi Paltiel on Shabbos morning P' Mishpatim, 8:45-9:45 AM more info on yagdiltorah.org at Mishkan Menachem (JCM Side Entrance)
TODAY
9:00am
The Beis MIdrash laNoshim U'Banos is holding classes daily, from 10:15 A.M., through 3 P.M., including Shabbos and Yom Tov. If you miss any of our classes, you can go to our WebsiteBMLN770.com, where the classes are posted daily. There is also an Archive of thousands of past classes which is added to weekly -and all of this amazing learning is FREE of charge! 9 A.M. Rabbi S. Samuels will teach a Ma'amar before davening. at beis midrash lanoshim, 770
TODAY
4:15pm
Parsha class by Rabbi Levi Garelik..social,enlightening,enjoyable.all women and girls invited. at 1349 president street
TODAY
5:00pm
Join us this Shabbos Parshas Mishpatim for an inspiring farbrengen with Rabbi Aryeh Israeli about "Human Faith vs. G-dly Faith!" You don't want to miss it! @5PM, The Lounge at The Lounge, 556 Crown Street
TODAY
5:30pm
There will be a Farbrengen -the theme is Preparation for Purim, led by Rabbi S. Samuels. at beis midrash lanoshim,770
TODAY
8:30pm
There will be a Melave Malka. A delicious Meal will be served. We will also listen to a guest speaker. Everyone is invited. at beis midrash lanoshim,770
Feb 26
10:00am
Join the professional pilates class by Sara Rose, and feel great. Bring a mat and your friends and stretch away. at 1451 President St
Feb 26
2:00pm
Fascinating Phone Shiur for ladies on weekly nun-aleph/nun-beis sichos in memory of Chaim'ke Feldman -- To hear Live call (712)-770-4700 access code 657124#. Playback number is(712)-770-4709 access code 657124#. at phone shiur
Feb 26
2:30pm
chjcc GYMNASTICS for GIRLS. 5-9years at 2.30-3.30p.m. 10-13 years at 3.30-4.30p.m. 1718 288 2947 Sara. at 899 Montgomery st
Feb 26
2:30pm
The Levi Yitzchok Library: Mothers and Children, Don't Miss Our Story Time This Sunday, as Morah Fraida Reads a Special Story in Honor of Rosh Chodesh Adar, as well as exciting Musical Accompaniment with Cellist Laura Melnicoff! at 305 Kingston Avenue
Feb 26
4:45pm
Bnos Menachem High School presents " Life Directed" a musical production of drama, choir and dance. Sunday, Feb 26 at Wingate High School. 600 Kingston Ave. 4:45 pm- doors open at 4:15. Please join us for an unforgettable event! For women and girls. at Wingate - 600 Kingston Ave
Feb 26
5:30pm
chjcc KRAV MAGA For boys 5:30-6.30p.m.boys5-9years 6.30-7.45p.m.boys10-14years. 1718 288 2947 Yehoshua Tubis. http://www.bitachon-frumdefense.com 899 Montgomery st at 899 Montgomery st




Recent Simchas








Recent Classifieds
- Pesach Getaway
Are you looking to go away for Pesach? Saratoga Chabad's guest house can accommodate up to 17 people. We will provide you with all the meals. | more...
- Preschool Teaching Position IMMEDIATE OPENING
Join our Shlichus preschool!! Mazel Day School is seeking a a PreK Judaic Studies co-teacher with classroom experience. Our preschool offers a | more...
- SHALOH HOUSE BOSTON: IMMEDIATE OPENING FOR POST SEMINARY GIRL
Shaloh House Jewish Day School in Brighton MA is looking for energetic, motivated assistant teachers for Limudei Kodesh for our preschool. The | more...
617-787-2200
jobs@shaloh.org
- CASH ADVANCE-TOP SALESMAN ONLY
We are looking for hungry individuals to start at our new location. We are a merchant cash advance company looking for openers, closers, and e | more...
917-578-1906
ozzie@samedc.com
- CGI PHILADELPHIA – The best camp needs the best staff – YOU!
Join our terrific staff team! We’ve been running CGI on our beautiful campsite in suburban Philadelphia for close to 30 years. We know how t | more...
- ATERES MIRIAM HALL
Clean Bright Small Simcha Hall Perfect for Brissim, Bas Mitzvahs, Luncheons, Upsherin, Sheva Brochos, etc.... Chairs, tables, and Mechit | more...
- ULTIMATE DIET/8-15lbs./per week
MONEY BACK GUARANTEE Rachel (845) 596-7039 Sometimes we have a bit of a waiting list for new people, but please be patient and especially r | more...
- Secretary Positions Available
Busy insurance office has a few positions available: Office Manager: insurance experience a + Underwriter: should be knowledgeable in microsof | more...




Nichum Aveilim
-Rabbi Reuven Flamer is sitting shiva in his home for his father.

Address:
245 Summit Park road Pomona, NY

Friday February 24- Tuesday morning February 28


HASHOVAS AVEIDA
-
Today Wednesday chof vov Shvat - February 22nd my grey wool coat was taken in error from 770. It was hanging on the railing of the bimah. A size 50 grey coat was left there instead. I did not take it as my coat was probably two sizes smaller.
Please call me if you have my coat. Or leave it there tomorrow. Thanks.
917-374-4674.
------
found dvd Roots the journey home, on kingston and Montogmery, feb 20. 7182073267
------
Lost: Brown fur Scarf. Lost Chof Beis Shvat, Shabbos. Lost either or Brooklyn Ave or Montgomery St.
Contact 917-445-4985 if found
-------
Someone left a wallet in Everything but the Baby a few months ago. text 347-263-2914 to claim
------
Found AMEX on Kingston
I just found an AMEX card on Kingston next to 770. 3109270334
-------
Lost a diamond ring on Kingston Ave on February 12. If found please call 845-520-1318. Thank you.

-----------
Brown wallet lost on Kingston,
Please contact 9784936531 if found.
Thanks
------
found set of keys on Carroll and Kingston
Call 718.913.7802
-----
Lost $55 in 770. If found please contact 917.226.4894. Thank you.
-----
Found a Visa card on Lefferts between Albany and Troy. Contact 917 841 7236
------
Sum of money on Kingston today ( Sunday, 9 Shevat) Call : 929-283-9840 Thanks
---------
LOST IN 770 TODAY SUNDAY FEB 5.MENS BLACK DOWN LANDS END COAT WITH FUR AROUND HOOD.
If found please call text 646 460 0587
Thank you
------------

Lost necklace in the vicinity of East New York & Albany Ave. Plz message me if found. TIA 3478647776

------
I found a kuntres of the Rebbe with the name sruli Horowitz
My number is 7862869425
-------
I found one or more teacher's manuals, put out for the "Sinai Scholars Society" under the JLI Institute, in 770. If you lost it/them, please contact me with Simanim (identifying signs) at 347-798-5934.
--------
Found lost money, provide details of your lost money at lostfoundcommunity@gmail.com
---------
I found 2 GOLD RINGS in 770 next to the sink Women'/ section on Wednesday, January 25, if its yours plse contact me at 1917-882-3034 Sarah with Signs!! Thank You!!
--------
Lost black samsung galaxy j7 on january 22 on union bet schnectedy and utica . If you found it PLEASE CALL 7182138366
--------
missing tefillin in Crown Heights
Name on it is Yacov Sholom Barber spelled in Hebrew. They are in a material carrying bag with a handle.
9178188707
--------
lost iphone 5 please call (917) 789-3090 if found, (pinkish case)
------
Lost iphone6+
Lost late last Tuesday night. Possibly around empire and Kingston.
Has crack top right hand corner.
Also on screen.
Has black case that's also cracked.
This is a work phone and is sorely missed.
Had a DIY pocket in back that may/may not still be stuck on.
Reward of $20 if found. Tx:)!
7185644102
-------
Found Black suede child's Ugg boot on Montgomery street between Kingston and Albany. Please text 424-288-1232
---------
Found a pearl necklace on Carroll st and Troy Ave. Someone must have dropped it on shabbos. Please email me to give details. Broch89@gmail.com
------
Lost a set of Infinity car keys near 770. If found please call Sara
917-971-7102
----
I found a Sony Xperia on Motzei Shabbos Parshas Chazak Bereishis, Carroll Street between Kingston & Albany. Please call if it's yours or if you know who the owner is...
646-285-7581

------

I lost my cell phone today on Kingston Ave.
Iphone 5c, White, starbucks cover
If found contact 7182495641
------


I found a watch on Eastern parkway on Thursday Jan 12
If it's yours TEXT only
3478717744
------------
Tefilin - Rashi lost on New York train around Chanukah. Tefilin bag has the name Shmuel Gordon stitched in in Hebrew letters, and the outline of 770. If anyone has any information call 1 631 746 0283
---------
Found bracelet at Goldberg mochkin wedding in oholei torah on Jan. 4.
If anyone lost text me 516 320 4911



Make COLive® your homepage | Contact Us
© 2017 COLLIVE.com
1488005738