Shidduchim SOS
-2 Sides to Shidduch
-Yes, I'm Waiting
-That Loving Feeling
-No Dating Romance
-Get Off the High Horse
-Once Upon a Time...
-What Bochurim Think
-Comment #31 Girl
-Why am I Not Married
-We All Know Someone
-What Kallahs Want
-Another Broken Heart?
-Her Parents Rejected Us


Shabbos Night Live
-Rabbi Butman - English
-Rabbi Butman - Hebrew
Jun 1, 2016

From the COLlive inbox: The Shadchan and her parents pressured her to meet - and then the bochur was asked... Full Story

78 Comments

May 23, 2016

From the COLlive inbox: "The shidduch with the first bochur I've liked in four years has ended and I feel like a million bucks..." Full Story

80 Comments

Dec 19, 2015

From the COLlive Inbox: "Recently there's been a growing trend to blame the guys' side in this game no one enjoys." Full Story

66 Comments

Oct 20, 2015

Illustration photo by Graur Codrin

From the COLlive inbox: A shadchan recently said girls should date bochurim who smoke since they will quit. The opposite is true. Full Story

83 Comments

Aug 20, 2015

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From the COLlive inbox: It's time we take into account the other person's feelings and end the shidduch yourself if it doesn't fit. Full Story

65 Comments

Aug 3, 2015

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From the COLlive inbox: A single Lubavitch woman says the way shidduch offers are described most likely lead to their failure. Full Story

48 Comments

Jul 4, 2015

"There's a common thread of unresolved issues running through the minds of older singles," says shaddchanis Rivkah Leah Bernath. Full Story

36 Comments

Jun 8, 2015

Op-Ed: Dating before the summer months brings its own set of challenges, making a complicated process even more so. Full Story

37 Comments

May 28, 2015

4 clues how to spot the "shopping" bochurim in the shidduchim scene to avoid heartache and save yourself time and money. Full Story

91 Comments

Feb 2, 2015

Illustration photo: Chana Blumes Photography

From the COLlive inbox: A single Chabad girl has 2 simple suggestions to help be more sensitive in all matters of dating. Full Story

58 Comments

Jan 5, 2015

Illustration photo by Atalia Katz

From the COLlive inbox: A mother of 2 single girls has had it with the washed-up excuse from older bochurim for not dating. Full Story

98 Comments

Dec 9, 2014

A new grant from philanthropist Shlomo Yehuda Rechnitz will pay $10,000 for a successful Shidduch match. But, there's a catch. Full Story

100 Comments

Dec 1, 2014

Op-ed: A mother who married off a few children responds to "Why Am I Not 'Shayech'?:" "I am sure that there are people who think I am a snob and a nasty one, too." Full Story

62 Comments

Nov 19, 2014

From the COLlive inbox: After getting my hopes up that this could be 'the one', within 2 hours of speaking to the Shadchan, those 6 words pop up on my screen - "They don't think it's Shayech." Full Story

108 Comments

Oct 26, 2014

From the COLlive inbox: A mother writes a painful public letter to the happily married classmates of her daughter. Full Story

146 Comments

Sep 21, 2014

The International Shidduch Group, directed by Mrs. Elana Bergovoy, recently held a whirlwind series of events in Stamford Hill, Golders Green and in Manchester, UK. Full Story

15 Comments

Aug 8, 2014

After bailing out institutions and releasing a prisoner from Bolivia, Shlomo Yehuda Rechnitz aims to solve the "shidduch crisis." Full Story

23 Comments

May 13, 2014

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With the shidduch process ever more complex, a new pre-dating course helps young adults take the biggest decision of their life seriously. Full Story

17 Comments
Feb 15, 2014

The story of a man who broke off an engagement, how it came back to haunt him some 30 years later and what he did about it. Full Story

16 Comments
Jan 22, 2014

From the COLlive inbox: The rule that a bochur and a girl must go out a least twice, while not interested, is simply ridiculous.
Full Story

72 Comments
Jan 16, 2014

Shaindel and Chani, two single Chabad girls, say the community needs to reassess the strategy and structure of the current shidduch system. Full Story

102 Comments
Jan 15, 2014

From the COLlive inbox: A matchmaker writes about a phone call she got on a Friday afternoon, shortly before Shabbos. Full Story

93 Comments
Oct 20, 2013

From the COLlive inbox: There's about 50 shidduch-aged girls who are being rejected simply because they are "English."
Full Story

279 Comments
Aug 11, 2013

Adai Ad will present "Enhancing your Beautiful Marriage," on building a successful relationship and achieving effective communication. Full Story

3 Comments
Aug 8, 2013

From the COLlive Inbox: A single girl going through shidduchim says certain dating scenarios have left her confused, wondering "what was the thought process involved?" Full Story

94 Comments
Jul 14, 2013

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From the COLlive Inbox: A girl in Shidduchim writes her perspective as a single girl, while many of her friends are getting engaged. Full Story

97 Comments
Jun 5, 2013

Shidduchim SOS: What does coming late to a Shidduch date say about you? Full Story

30 Comments
May 23, 2013

Rabbi Nachman Wilhelm of Online Smicha discusses what characteristics to look for when considering a shidduch. Video

14 Comments
May 14, 2013

The Two E Bar/Lounge at the The Pierre - a Taj Hotel in New York City

Shidduchim SOS: A mother of children shares 4 suggestions for singles on what not to do while on a shidduch date.
Full Story

37 Comments
Apr 25, 2013

A frum psychotherapist says spending more time with each other does not provide clarity in shidduchim. He also offers 3 tips for finding a bashert. Full Story

34 Comments
Apr 17, 2013

An event by the Adai Ad organization and Shalom Taskforce will answer questions on the mother's role in the shiduchim process. Full Story

30 Comments
Apr 9, 2013

2,237 Lubavitchers are using the frum dating website Harei At. Owner Eli Ostreicher is considering a "Chabad section."
Full Story, Video

7 Comments
Mar 30, 2013

Devora Krasnianski of the Adai Ad organization speaks to relationship coach Pearl Mattenson about 6 areas that need clarifying on a shidduch date. Full Story, Video

11 Comments
Feb 26, 2013

Op-Ed: After finally overcoming his "fear of commitment," a recently married Lubavitch man shares tips on how he overcame his fear and finally proposed. Full Story

61 Comments
Jan 28, 2013

From the COLlive inbox: A 23-year-old bochur in Shidduchim wonders whether it is really a good idea to send a photo before a date. Full Story

144 Comments
Dec 19, 2012

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With the shidduch process ever complex, a new pre-dating course for bochurim and girls will begin in the next few weeks.
Full Story

36 Comments
Nov 22, 2012

Illustration photo by Mendel Meyers

Shidduchim SOS: Why would a mother with an eligible daughter treat a prospective girl for her son with minimal respect? Full Story

138 Comments
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Chabad Calendar
TODAY
10:00am
Mommy and Me, Wednesday 10am - 11am! Join Morah Channah for a special dancing Mommy and Me this Wednesday at 10am. Enjoy davening, song and dance together with your child as you add some movement to your morning!! $5 per family Geared for children 0-2 years at Levi Yitzchok Library 305 Kingston Ave at Levi Yitzchok Library - 305 Kingston Avenue
TODAY
2:30pm
Ahavas Chesed Medical and Emergency Lifeline is having a blood drive Wednsday July 27 - 21 of Tammuz from 2:30 to 9:30 at Lubavitch Yeshiva 570 Crown Street GIVE BLOOD SAVE A LIFE at 570 CROWN STREET
TODAY
6:30pm
Tanya for ladies and girls with Rabbi Kastel, using text with questions and answers. Come and dedicate class for a special someone or occasion. Adding in learning widens the channels to receive Hashem's blessings! at 1236 Carroll Street, btw New York & Nostrand
TODAY
7:45pm
All women & girls are invited to an enjoyable & understandable Hilchos Beis HaBechira Shiur taught by Mazal Zirkind, 7:45 - 9 pm, every Sunday through Thursday, till T'u B'Av. at Beis Levi Yitzchol Shul
TODAY
8:00pm
Summer Evening Program 8-9 pm. WdnesdaysHilchos Beis HaBechira with Rabbi Binyamin Baras. All classes free of charge. To listen via phone dial (712) 775-7031. When prompted enter meeting ID 453-290-672# at Dorm-1367 President Street at the Dorm - 1367 President Street
TODAY
8:30pm
Pilates/dance class for women at 760 Montgomery St. at 8:30 P.M. Have fun. Bring a mat and a friend at 760 Montgomery St #2E
L'Chaim
Moshe Carlebach (ben R' Yosef Tzvi) - New Brunswick, NJ to Chaiky Lipskier (bas R' Zalman) - Crown Heights at Lubavitch Yeshiva
TODAY
9:00pm
Mothers of All Ages! 'Dealing with Life's Stresses' - Devora Kozlik LMSW Please join us for our interactive teleconference on Wednesday night from 9PM! Call712-775-7031 and enter PIN292831 Hope you will join us! at Teleconference
Jul 28
7:00pm
Clothing Swap and learning about Tu B'av, $5/$10 suggested donation to support the Garden. at Crown Heights Community Garden
Jul 28
7:45pm
All women & girls are invited to an enjoyable & understandable Hilchos Beis HaBechira Shiur taught by Mazal Zirkind, 7:45 - 9 pm, every Sunday through Thursday, till T'u B'Av. at Beis Levi Yitzchol Shul
Jul 28
8:00pm
Summer Evening Program 8-9 pm. Thursdays: Maamer with Rabbi YY Greenberg All classes free of charge. To listen via phone dial (712) 775-7031. When prompted enter meeting ID 453-290-672# at the Dorm
Jul 29
Shalom Zachor: Avraham Yosef and Simcha Baez at 528 Maple St, 2nd floor




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Nichum Aveilim
-The Silkes family is sitting Shiva after the passing of their mother, Mrs. Kayla Silkes OBM at
1313 Carroll St

Davening times:
Shacharis: 8:00 am
Mincha: 8:00 pm
Mariv: 9:00 pm


HASHOVAS AVEIDA
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FOUND: Tefillin of Menachem Mendel Polansky in Kahan's Superette on Kingston Avenue. Come into store to claim.

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Lost: A blue material bag used for eye glasses, with very important cards inside. It was lost today on Eastern Parkway between Albany & Kingston.

If someone finds it can you be so kind and get in touch with us! 718-363-0102
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Found Chitas
Black leather with name:
Heidiho1234@yahoo.com
347-277-0302
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I lost a jewelry box filled with jewelry on Crown St bet. Bklyn and N.Y. two weeks ago. Opens in middle with a zipper, animal-print design.
4438826388

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Lost: Yellow gold flat wedding band. If found please contact 3476935259.
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Found - on President St between Kingston and Albany - a big key ring with many car keys. Please call 718-809-5504.
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If you switched talleisim this shabbos in Mikvah Meir at around 10:30 AM, please contact 929-326-2390. It's a brand new talis so it would be very appreciated to have it back.
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Found: Monday morning in Ezras Nashim of the Ohel Shul. Someone left a white Samsung cell phone on the table. Contact the Ohel desk to retrieve it.

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We lost a galaxy 3 phone on Tuesday june 28 by FREE on president near kingston. When camp chomeiah was leaving. Please call 347-792-4914

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I found a blue Mikva clicker on Montgomery and Albany.
If you think it is yours, please call 718-771-2214.
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Found a Borsalino men's hat possibility lost after the Raksin/sputz wedding flew off from the rain
Dlwilmowsky@gmail.com
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Money found. If you lost $ text 347.342.9777
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Left a baby stroller on Carroll St Between Kingston & Albany on Sunday 6/19. Please call 347-457-4388 if found. thank you.


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