Shidduchim SOS
-2 Sides to Shidduch
-Yes, I'm Waiting
-That Loving Feeling
-No Dating Romance
-Get Off the High Horse
-Once Upon a Time...
-What Bochurim Think
-Comment #31 Girl
-Why am I Not Married
-We All Know Someone
-What Kallahs Want
-Another Broken Heart?
-Her Parents Rejected Us


Shabbos Night Live
-Rabbi Butman - English
-Rabbi Butman - Hebrew
Jun 1, 2016

From the COLlive inbox: The Shadchan and her parents pressured her to meet - and then the bochur was asked... Full Story

82 Comments

May 23, 2016

From the COLlive inbox: "The shidduch with the first bochur I've liked in four years has ended and I feel like a million bucks..." Full Story

84 Comments

Dec 19, 2015

From the COLlive Inbox: "Recently there's been a growing trend to blame the guys' side in this game no one enjoys." Full Story

66 Comments

Oct 20, 2015

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From the COLlive inbox: A shadchan recently said girls should date bochurim who smoke since they will quit. The opposite is true. Full Story

83 Comments

Aug 20, 2015

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From the COLlive inbox: It's time we take into account the other person's feelings and end the shidduch yourself if it doesn't fit. Full Story

65 Comments

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Aug 3, 2015

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From the COLlive inbox: A single Lubavitch woman says the way shidduch offers are described most likely lead to their failure. Full Story

48 Comments

Jul 4, 2015

"There's a common thread of unresolved issues running through the minds of older singles," says shaddchanis Rivkah Leah Bernath. Full Story

36 Comments

Jun 8, 2015

Op-Ed: Dating before the summer months brings its own set of challenges, making a complicated process even more so. Full Story

37 Comments

May 28, 2015

4 clues how to spot the "shopping" bochurim in the shidduchim scene to avoid heartache and save yourself time and money. Full Story

91 Comments

Feb 2, 2015

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From the COLlive inbox: A single Chabad girl has 2 simple suggestions to help be more sensitive in all matters of dating. Full Story

59 Comments

Jan 5, 2015

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From the COLlive inbox: A mother of 2 single girls has had it with the washed-up excuse from older bochurim for not dating. Full Story

98 Comments

Dec 9, 2014

A new grant from philanthropist Shlomo Yehuda Rechnitz will pay $10,000 for a successful Shidduch match. But, there's a catch. Full Story

101 Comments

Dec 1, 2014

Op-ed: A mother who married off a few children responds to "Why Am I Not 'Shayech'?:" "I am sure that there are people who think I am a snob and a nasty one, too." Full Story

62 Comments

Nov 19, 2014

From the COLlive inbox: After getting my hopes up that this could be 'the one', within 2 hours of speaking to the Shadchan, those 6 words pop up on my screen - "They don't think it's Shayech." Full Story

108 Comments

Oct 26, 2014

From the COLlive inbox: A mother writes a painful public letter to the happily married classmates of her daughter. Full Story

146 Comments

Sep 21, 2014

The International Shidduch Group, directed by Mrs. Elana Bergovoy, recently held a whirlwind series of events in Stamford Hill, Golders Green and in Manchester, UK. Full Story

15 Comments

Aug 8, 2014

After bailing out institutions and releasing a prisoner from Bolivia, Shlomo Yehuda Rechnitz aims to solve the "shidduch crisis." Full Story

23 Comments

May 13, 2014

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With the shidduch process ever more complex, a new pre-dating course helps young adults take the biggest decision of their life seriously. Full Story

17 Comments

Feb 15, 2014

The story of a man who broke off an engagement, how it came back to haunt him some 30 years later and what he did about it. Full Story

16 Comments
Jan 22, 2014

From the COLlive inbox: The rule that a bochur and a girl must go out a least twice, while not interested, is simply ridiculous.
Full Story

72 Comments

Jan 16, 2014

Shaindel and Chani, two single Chabad girls, say the community needs to reassess the strategy and structure of the current shidduch system. Full Story

102 Comments

Jan 15, 2014

From the COLlive inbox: A matchmaker writes about a phone call she got on a Friday afternoon, shortly before Shabbos. Full Story

95 Comments

Oct 20, 2013

From the COLlive inbox: There's about 50 shidduch-aged girls who are being rejected simply because they are "English."
Full Story

279 Comments

Aug 11, 2013

Adai Ad will present "Enhancing your Beautiful Marriage," on building a successful relationship and achieving effective communication. Full Story

3 Comments
Aug 8, 2013

From the COLlive Inbox: A single girl going through shidduchim says certain dating scenarios have left her confused, wondering "what was the thought process involved?" Full Story

94 Comments
Jul 14, 2013

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From the COLlive Inbox: A girl in Shidduchim writes her perspective as a single girl, while many of her friends are getting engaged. Full Story

97 Comments
Jun 5, 2013

Shidduchim SOS: What does coming late to a Shidduch date say about you? Full Story

30 Comments
May 23, 2013

Rabbi Nachman Wilhelm of Online Smicha discusses what characteristics to look for when considering a shidduch. Video

14 Comments
May 14, 2013

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Shidduchim SOS: A mother of children shares 4 suggestions for singles on what not to do while on a shidduch date.
Full Story

37 Comments
Apr 25, 2013

A frum psychotherapist says spending more time with each other does not provide clarity in shidduchim. He also offers 3 tips for finding a bashert. Full Story

34 Comments
Apr 17, 2013

An event by the Adai Ad organization and Shalom Taskforce will answer questions on the mother's role in the shiduchim process. Full Story

30 Comments
Apr 9, 2013

2,237 Lubavitchers are using the frum dating website Harei At. Owner Eli Ostreicher is considering a "Chabad section."
Full Story, Video

7 Comments
Mar 30, 2013

Devora Krasnianski of the Adai Ad organization speaks to relationship coach Pearl Mattenson about 6 areas that need clarifying on a shidduch date. Full Story, Video

11 Comments
Feb 26, 2013

Op-Ed: After finally overcoming his "fear of commitment," a recently married Lubavitch man shares tips on how he overcame his fear and finally proposed. Full Story

61 Comments
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Chabad Calendar
TODAY
11:00am
Chizuk with the Chevra. Join us for an inspiring and fun-filled farbrengen based on Chassidus of the parsha. led by Miriam Sherr. All women welcome! at 1474 Carroll St (albany/troy)
Wedding
Shimon Kivman - Crown Heights and Mushka Fajnaland - Long Beach at Oholei Torah
TODAY
8:30pm
Shiur Gmorah l'iyun in English with Rabbi Sholom Dovid Geisinsky at Ohel nosson crown
Aug 23
7:30pm
Celebrate Rosh Chodesh Elul by adding in Torah learning with Rabbi Kastel's Tanya shiur. Questions and answers, discussion and stories. Please join us! Feel free to dedicate the class for a birthday, yahrzeit, or other special occasion. at 1236 Carroll Street, btw New York & Nostrand
Aug 23
Wedding: Chaim Mayzlesh - Mexico City, Mexico and Blumi Alpern - S. Paulo, Brazil at Razag
Aug 24
Wedding: JJ Duchman - Los Angeles, CA and Frumie Rosenfeld (SB) - Zurich, Switzerland at Zurich, Switzerland
Aug 24
Wedding: Yehuda Rosenblum - Crown Heights and Racheli Sperlin - Crown Heights at Oholei Torah
Aug 24
L'Chaim: Tani Rapoport - Vineland, NJ to Chanchi Hoch - Pittsburgh, PA at Nemes Hall 309 New York Avenue




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Nichum Aveilim
-Mrs. Devorah Roness is sitting Shiva for her brother Chayim Berger A\"H, at 529 crown st. (EXCEPT Tuesday afternoon & evening, when she will be in Boro Park).

Hours to be Menachem Avel: 11am - 3pm & 5 - 9pm.


HASHOVAS AVEIDA
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Found Smartphone Sunday 8/20/ Carroll between Kingston And Albany Call 917-971-4604
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My son lost his teffilin in a blue bag that says Wilkes-Barre and the name on the teffilin is Yehuda Hecht.
please contact us VERY IMPORTANT( tefilin he is a leftie)

Yehudahecht0@gmail.com or
3235905567
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Lost a pair of thin-metal rimmed (or half-rimmed) eyeglasses, probably in Crown Heights. If found, can you please text 718-809-5504
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Found sun morning 6:45 am near 829 montgomery crown heights b/t troy/albany near troy men`s short coat gartel keys. Gershon 3477428534

Update
I gave it to a guy who lives on montgomery who said he will drop it off at gutnik 829 montgomery
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Found on Albany avenue off eastern parkway on Monday July 24th
Evenflo Double stroller
With keys and car remote for a Buick on Calvin Klein and coach keychains
Case for Invisalign braces
I left it with leasing Depot
718-493-9300
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Nike Black hyperdunk high top right sneaker left on bus going from Hew Haven YBDS Yeshiva to CH, last month. One of the bochrim took it with him. Please call Yaacov, 203-247-3348.
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FOUND: Chabad Tefilin found in Miami Beach recently. It has a sticker from Moshe Klein that it was checked by him and the name Margolis is written on the bottom of one of the batim.

To claim call 305-525-2742.
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Received a Rebbe's dollar as change in Crown Heights.
If you are missing a dollar bill dated 1988, please contact me at:
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did you find a phone late last week, probably in marketplace, with an apple bank pocket on the back? i really miss it! Thanks! myvirtualhand@gmail.com
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Hi I lost my suitcase on Eastern Parkway and Brooklyn ave. 9:30 am. It is a light gray plastic carry-on Samsonite. Filled with clothing. Please call 347-628-6598 thank you!
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a watch was found in men's mikvah, over a week ago.

call 347-834-9883; if no answer leave a message clearly.


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