Shidduchim SOS
-2 Sides to Shidduch
-Yes, I'm Waiting
-That Loving Feeling
-No Dating Romance
-Get Off the High Horse
-Once Upon a Time...
-What Bochurim Think
-Comment #31 Girl
-Why am I Not Married
-We All Know Someone
-What Kallahs Want
-Another Broken Heart?
-Her Parents Rejected Us


Shabbos Night Live
-Rabbi Butman - English
-Rabbi Butman - Hebrew
Jun 1, 2016

From the COLlive inbox: The Shadchan and her parents pressured her to meet - and then the bochur was asked... Full Story

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From the COLlive inbox: "The shidduch with the first bochur I've liked in four years has ended and I feel like a million bucks..." Full Story

84 Comments

Dec 19, 2015

From the COLlive Inbox: "Recently there's been a growing trend to blame the guys' side in this game no one enjoys." Full Story

66 Comments

Oct 20, 2015

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From the COLlive inbox: A shadchan recently said girls should date bochurim who smoke since they will quit. The opposite is true. Full Story

83 Comments

Aug 20, 2015

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From the COLlive inbox: It's time we take into account the other person's feelings and end the shidduch yourself if it doesn't fit. Full Story

65 Comments

Aug 3, 2015

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From the COLlive inbox: A single Lubavitch woman says the way shidduch offers are described most likely lead to their failure. Full Story

48 Comments

Jul 4, 2015

"There's a common thread of unresolved issues running through the minds of older singles," says shaddchanis Rivkah Leah Bernath. Full Story

36 Comments

Jun 8, 2015

Op-Ed: Dating before the summer months brings its own set of challenges, making a complicated process even more so. Full Story

37 Comments

May 28, 2015

4 clues how to spot the "shopping" bochurim in the shidduchim scene to avoid heartache and save yourself time and money. Full Story

91 Comments
Feb 2, 2015

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From the COLlive inbox: A single Chabad girl has 2 simple suggestions to help be more sensitive in all matters of dating. Full Story

59 Comments

Jan 5, 2015

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From the COLlive inbox: A mother of 2 single girls has had it with the washed-up excuse from older bochurim for not dating. Full Story

98 Comments

Dec 9, 2014

A new grant from philanthropist Shlomo Yehuda Rechnitz will pay $10,000 for a successful Shidduch match. But, there's a catch. Full Story

101 Comments

Dec 1, 2014

Op-ed: A mother who married off a few children responds to "Why Am I Not 'Shayech'?:" "I am sure that there are people who think I am a snob and a nasty one, too." Full Story

62 Comments

Nov 19, 2014

From the COLlive inbox: After getting my hopes up that this could be 'the one', within 2 hours of speaking to the Shadchan, those 6 words pop up on my screen - "They don't think it's Shayech." Full Story

108 Comments

Oct 26, 2014

From the COLlive inbox: A mother writes a painful public letter to the happily married classmates of her daughter. Full Story

146 Comments

Sep 21, 2014

The International Shidduch Group, directed by Mrs. Elana Bergovoy, recently held a whirlwind series of events in Stamford Hill, Golders Green and in Manchester, UK. Full Story

15 Comments

Aug 8, 2014

After bailing out institutions and releasing a prisoner from Bolivia, Shlomo Yehuda Rechnitz aims to solve the "shidduch crisis." Full Story

23 Comments

May 13, 2014

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With the shidduch process ever more complex, a new pre-dating course helps young adults take the biggest decision of their life seriously. Full Story

17 Comments

Feb 15, 2014

The story of a man who broke off an engagement, how it came back to haunt him some 30 years later and what he did about it. Full Story

16 Comments

Jan 22, 2014

From the COLlive inbox: The rule that a bochur and a girl must go out a least twice, while not interested, is simply ridiculous.
Full Story

72 Comments

Jan 16, 2014

Shaindel and Chani, two single Chabad girls, say the community needs to reassess the strategy and structure of the current shidduch system. Full Story

102 Comments
Jan 15, 2014

From the COLlive inbox: A matchmaker writes about a phone call she got on a Friday afternoon, shortly before Shabbos. Full Story

95 Comments
Oct 20, 2013

From the COLlive inbox: There's about 50 shidduch-aged girls who are being rejected simply because they are "English."
Full Story

279 Comments
Aug 11, 2013

Adai Ad will present "Enhancing your Beautiful Marriage," on building a successful relationship and achieving effective communication. Full Story

3 Comments
Aug 8, 2013

From the COLlive Inbox: A single girl going through shidduchim says certain dating scenarios have left her confused, wondering "what was the thought process involved?" Full Story

94 Comments
Jul 14, 2013

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From the COLlive Inbox: A girl in Shidduchim writes her perspective as a single girl, while many of her friends are getting engaged. Full Story

97 Comments
Jun 5, 2013

Shidduchim SOS: What does coming late to a Shidduch date say about you? Full Story

30 Comments
May 23, 2013

Rabbi Nachman Wilhelm of Online Smicha discusses what characteristics to look for when considering a shidduch. Video

14 Comments
May 14, 2013

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Shidduchim SOS: A mother of children shares 4 suggestions for singles on what not to do while on a shidduch date.
Full Story

37 Comments
Apr 25, 2013

A frum psychotherapist says spending more time with each other does not provide clarity in shidduchim. He also offers 3 tips for finding a bashert. Full Story

34 Comments
Apr 17, 2013

An event by the Adai Ad organization and Shalom Taskforce will answer questions on the mother's role in the shiduchim process. Full Story

30 Comments
Apr 9, 2013

2,237 Lubavitchers are using the frum dating website Harei At. Owner Eli Ostreicher is considering a "Chabad section."
Full Story, Video

7 Comments
Mar 30, 2013

Devora Krasnianski of the Adai Ad organization speaks to relationship coach Pearl Mattenson about 6 areas that need clarifying on a shidduch date. Full Story, Video

11 Comments
Feb 26, 2013

Op-Ed: After finally overcoming his "fear of commitment," a recently married Lubavitch man shares tips on how he overcame his fear and finally proposed. Full Story

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Chabad Calendar
TODAY
10:15am
Rabbi Y.Y. Paltiel will lead a Farbrengen for Rosh Chodesh Kislev 11;15 A.M. Rabbi Paltiel will teach Tanya. 12;15 P.M., Rabbi S. Bluming will teach the Ma'amar, "matzati es David Avdi" 1;00 P.M. Rabbi Einstein will speak about Conquering the World and bringing Hiskashrus in our families. . at beis midrash lanoshim, 770
TODAY
11:00am
11'A.M. Rabbi Levi Goldstein will teach Rosh Chodesh Kislev in HEBREW. 12 P.M. Rabbi Levi Goldstein will teach the special meaning of Rosh Chodesh Kislev in HEBREW. 1;00 P.M. Rabbi Shmuel Bluming will teach the Ma'amar, "Matzati Es David Avdi" in HEBREW. at beis midrash lanoshim, 770
TODAY
2:00pm
There will be a Farbrengen in honor of Rosh Chodesh Kislev. A Seudah Hoda'ah will be served. A Shaliach of the Rebbe MH"M will teach Dvar Malchut, Vayeitze. at beis midrash lanoshim, 770
TODAY
2:30pm
Levi Yitzchok Library invites Mommies & Children to Story Time. Join us, as Morah Fraida reads "Much Much Better" followed by fun art activity. at Levi Yitzchok Library
TODAY
6:00pm
"Self Defense Studio CH". Undergo a course of physical development,self-management and methods of self-defense.Boys 6-UP. 718-288 2947 at CHJCC NEW GYM.899Montgomery
Nov 20
11:15am
Levi Yitzchok Library invites Women to Coffee and Conversation. Start your week with a personal conversation about womanhood. with Rivky Katz. at Levi Yitzchok Library - 305 Kingston Avenue
Nov 20
1:00pm
Levi Yitzchok Library invites mommies & children to Mommy & Me. Music & movement: An inspiring hour of musical davening and dancing with Morah Rivky. at Levi Yitzchok Library
Nov 20
L'Chaim: Mendy Alpern - S. Paulo, Brazil to Mushky Wilhelm - Zhitomir, Ukraine at FREE
Nov 21
9:15am
FELDENKRAIS/ ABM Movement Classes. Tuesdays 9:15am. Space limited please reserve 718-753-6541 at 1373 President St. side entrance
Nov 21
10:30am
Rochie's Mommy & Me, every Tuesday for babies and toddlers. Play time, Davening, arts & crafts, in a warm and friendly environment. $5/session $15/mo 646-537-5644 917-587-9491 at 538 Crown Street, Between Albany & Kingston
Nov 21
11:00am
Levi Yitzchok Library invites women to an Author presentation - Miriam Yerushalmi. Followed by Musical Farbrengen with Singer - Tzivia Kay & Author signing and buying. at Levi Yitzchok Library - 305 Kingston Avenue
Nov 21
8:30pm
Ruderman Inclusion Initiative Employing People With Disabilities In Our Community Men and women are welcome RSVP 701-404-RCII appreciated Drinks and refreshments will be served at Home of Shmuly and Tzirl Goldman 1574 Carroll Street
Nov 21
L'Chaim: Mendy Shapiro - Sydney, Australia to Chanie Kesselman - Crown Heights at Lubavitch Yeshiva




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Nichum Aveilim
-Shiva times and address for

Shua Polonsky

Yehoshua Raphael Halevi Ben Hershel Leib halevi

502 New York Ave, apt 4b
between

Day session 10am-2pm
Night session 8pm-9:30pm

Shachris: 10am
Mincha: 1pm
Maariv: 8pm

Please respect the scheduled times.

The family has requested to please share any pictures, stories and memories you may have (written stories or voice recording) of Shua to shuastrong@gmail.com.


HASHOVAS AVEIDA
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I switched my winter coat in Ohel on Friday by accident with someone
My coat was hanging on a door handle and was replaced with a new - same style coat. Coat company is HART SCHAFFNER MARX. It youre missing a new winter coat that was left in Ohel
Contact : 8588427707

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Found the watch in front of 770 last week 917 513 7274
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If you lost a Megillah in Congregation Lubavitch- Yeshiva Shul in Montreal,
Possibly even a couple years ago
Please contact the Gaboim immediately at congregationlubavitch@gmail.com
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FOUND - TORAH MANTLE, PAROCHET
A bag of multiple Torah mantles, paroches etc. were found. If this is yours please contact me and describe what was missing so I could return it to the rightful owner. The items are beautiful and full of detail.
443-321-4628
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Lost Tfilin both Rashi and R"T in CH yesterday
contacted at: 718-753-8415
rabbihecht@gmail.com
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A chitas was left in my house with the name embroidered on its leather covering. Please contact me if the chitas is yours!
7184930852 Bubbylevertov@gmail.com
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Lot money
Lost money on Monday, October 30 app after 3PM. If found please call 917-805-8467
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URGENT: LOST PASSPORT
Lost a blue passport by the name Ruth bagdadi jasqui on carroll and troy area, close to crown. Is a Mexican passport.
Whoever found it can contact 929-271-8532 or 917-436-0969 or 347-401-3525

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Lost a wallet on 10.31.17 near union st and kingston avenues at approx 8 PM. Has learner's permit inside with my address which begins with 612. Please call 347 304 1367 and ask for Michal if found.
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lost in or near 770. Large green backpack. Missing since late tues night Oct 24. Has rashi tefillin also seforim. Name and phone number in seforim. If found or seen please contact yoel 347 628 4914.


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